She’s officially a Hotwife!!
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Hints? 🤣
Seriously though, you have to communicate with her. What did you say when she told you those things? Whether they were hints or not, those were certainly golden opportunities for you to say something to get a conversation going.
Seriously though, you have to communicate with her. What did you say when she told you those things? Whether they were hints or not, those were certainly golden opportunities for you to say something to get a conversation going.
We’re good my friend. We’ve talked about this lifestyle and she’s said now she’s open to it. She needs to learn to just let go in the bedroom. She’s always been too much in her own head. I have a very good feeling about our future.
We’ve started doing this more and more now.
I love it when hubby talks dirty to me. Usually about what other men would do to me 🤭
After sex last night she told me that it’s starting to happen for her. Letting go in the bedroom 😍
promise to lick her pussy clean after she has fucked another man and you will lick her pussy clean every time she fucks someone.
Her text to me last night after I asked if she was actually serious about this lifestyle.
Yes I am open to it. I just don't think I'm ready yet. But last night was a good start for me... Practicing letting go, being present, building confidence
Yes I am open to it. I just don't think I'm ready yet. But last night was a good start for me... Practicing letting go, being present, building confidence
Once her mind has accepted the fact of fucking another guy, its gonna happen, just a matter of time., Your story is great, thank you so much for sharing it!!! can't wait for the next post!!
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Hey buddy, yes I have a very good feeling about our future. She’s changed a lot in a short period of time. We both have to be honest and in a very loving, patient and caring way.
Another update from the hottub last night. Melissa said she had a dream where she picked up a guy at a resort we were at. She was having sex with him in our room when I walked in on them but I wasn’t mad. Obviously her subconscious is thinking about it.
We got to talking about hotwifing and she said again she is really open to it and really wants to get to where I am with it. We talked about different sexual things and I told her again that I want to watch her have sex with other men and she defiantly thinks it’s hot.
She also admitted to having an attraction to an old bf we saw at the farmers market last summer. She said she was instantly drawn to him. Another guy who she’s gotten to know through work she said she’s been group messaging through work with him. Lately they’ve been having private messages like he was confusing in Melissa about his gf not working out etc. She admitted to me she is attracted to him in a certain way. Then she said she feels like she almost wants to groom him!? I took it as he’s a safe guy to start with? Groom him for sex?
We got to talking about hotwifing and she said again she is really open to it and really wants to get to where I am with it. We talked about different sexual things and I told her again that I want to watch her have sex with other men and she defiantly thinks it’s hot.
She also admitted to having an attraction to an old bf we saw at the farmers market last summer. She said she was instantly drawn to him. Another guy who she’s gotten to know through work she said she’s been group messaging through work with him. Lately they’ve been having private messages like he was confusing in Melissa about his gf not working out etc. She admitted to me she is attracted to him in a certain way. Then she said she feels like she almost wants to groom him!? I took it as he’s a safe guy to start with? Groom him for sex?
Probably alittle processing taking place. As mentioned, keep talking to her and let her make this decision (not you). Of course we get excited about the idea of another man with our wives, but ultimately it needs to be her decision so she isn't doing it to solely please you. My recommendation is to find out what kind of man she is fantasizing about. Ya know, is he black, white..etc. Big cock, average, slightly bigger than you..etc. Then maybe go on a reputable sex toy shop and pick out a new friend for her that matches her fantasy. I cannot recommend Mr. Hankey's Toys enough.
I'm telling you brother...Mr. Hankey's toys. We have the Nick Capra original size and it's nice long and thick. Fills my wife up and she loves it.
sounds like she has really come around to the idea. She has picked the guy from work by the sounds of it and wants to groom him to join you. Is she flirty texting him?
getting him into the right mind before she starts to get hot and heavy with him?
Wow, just catching up on your thread. Best of luck to you and I hope things happen soon for you. My wife is slowly coming around, and I think we will eventually get there, but at least several months behind your progress. Keep us up to date on all your progress.
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