I just sent her a few articles regarding the benefits of non manogomous relationships and stag vixen relationships. She’s going to read them tonight after work.
She’s officially a Hotwife!!
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That's great news!!
Remember to let her do her own research and don't push anything on her as she may push back.
Maybe have some pillow talk and see were it goes.
Remember to let her do her own research and don't push anything on her as she may push back.
Maybe have some pillow talk and see were it goes.
For sure I’m taking it very slow. She told me she needs to wrap her mind around the idea. Last night I bought her flowers and wine and made a nice steak dinner. Told her how much I love her and how different I feel about us now since we’ve talked about it. By feel different I mean in a really good way.
She didn’t bring up the topic when I told her this but I could feel the love reciprocating back to me.
She didn’t bring up the topic when I told her this but I could feel the love reciprocating back to me.
Sex has been a lot hotter since we’ve talked and Melissa has came hard 3 times in a row now. I told her last night to tell me some naughty things she’s done. She was actually responsive about it this time and told me how she gave a guy a blowjob in park once out in the open.
I reiterated that I love hearing it and she’s so sexy and desired. I also told her she just needs to let her naughty side out and she won’t regret it. She said yes I’m trying to.
I reiterated that I love hearing it and she’s so sexy and desired. I also told her she just needs to let her naughty side out and she won’t regret it. She said yes I’m trying to.
Keep the topic on ice. Even though she's not talking about it, the wheels are spinning in her head. She has to wire her brain to think its just sex. She's been making love to you so long or that's all she knows how to do it will take time.
Still have fun with it in bed. Tell her what you would like to see done to her.
Still have fun with it in bed. Tell her what you would like to see done to her.
For sure Melissa even said she needs to wrap her mind around this. I fully believe what your saying because she’s given zero negative reaction to any of it. Just some emotions and doubts but we talked about it.
Melissa is really opening up now. Last night during sex she initiated talking about threesomes and I got her to tell me more about her past stories. So hot!! She said she wants to talk more the thought of actually doing it is scary. I told her not a problem I want to go slow as well.
Melissa now told me after asking her that she prefers a bigger dick. Wider as she put it, fills her up and makes her feel naughty. I’ve found a couple mmf porns that are on the erotic real side. See how she reacts to them.
Thats awesome. I am an average size and explained and made sure I knew she would enjoy a larger and longer penis. Its going to touch area's I couldn't.
I noticed you had put MMF. There is a difference between MMF vs MFM.. not sure if you are aware because you may attract a male that has different expectations.
I am happy for you. Things are starting to fall into place.
I noticed you had put MMF. There is a difference between MMF vs MFM.. not sure if you are aware because you may attract a male that has different expectations.
I am happy for you. Things are starting to fall into place.
Your story sounds so much like ours. Went down the same road almost identical to yours and we found a guy she really wants to sleep with. The only downside is that he is quite a ways away and it will require some time away to visit him (his situation is such that he can’t really travel too far).
They talked by text nearly everyday at the beginning but it’s slowed down to a couple days a week due to his situation and work schedule. She’s loving the fact he’s longer and thicker and will be able to hit places that I can’t (or will be able to hit them a lot easier and in other positions).
Good luck on the rest of your journey. If Melissa is anything like my wife, the curiosity will never go away until it actually happens. And if things work out well there will be many more encounters with others down the road. Once that box is open, it’s doubtful she will ever go back to being a vanilla and proper married woman.
Well all I can say is I sure hope your right about that! It’s hard to stay patient with this lol. But I’m really taking my time and not bringing it up all the time. She’s even said that I’m different now since we’ve first talked about it and that’s in a good way.
She told me at breakfast today she’s going for coffee with a friend. I found it that it’s a guy she met recently through a work thing. I’m not saying she cheated I knew she wouldn’t. I’m just wondering if this is a little test for me to see if I get jealous. She asked me if I was ok with her going with him. I said of course babe have fun!
Encourage her to play with others and you will lick her pussy clean.
I would hope she would tell you if she thinks she has someone in mind.
Being open about everything elevates any unanswered question or potential trust issues.
I’m not sure if she has him in mind or not. When she got home after it was very non chalant. She never gave any hints of her finding him attractive etc. Just said they had a nice chat over coffee. I still think it was a little test to see if I get jealous of her going out somewhere with a guy.
She will for sure tell me. She’s not the secretive type I know that for sure.
encourage her to fuck any cock or pussy she wants with or without you there. Then hope she shares the details with you as she rides your face.
Yes, you're probbly right that this was a test. It's sometimes hard for a woman to believe that her husband would want her to do this, no matter how many times you assure her that you want this. She may need tangible proof that your reaction matches your words.
If your ultimate goal is to experience MFM with her, your instinct to allow her the freedom to explore this on her own is absolutely right. She needs to find a comfort level and be assured of your reaction. Just be ready if she ever confesses that she has been unfaithful and show support and understanding of her need to play on her own before risking playing with you there and it all backfiring on her. Any display of anger or jealousy could ruin it for you and her.
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