Wife wants to go (is now going) on holiday with him
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we had that rule for many years. At some point, as a relationship with a lover became longer and longer, it only made sense for us. Allowed her to enjoy a more complete experience with her lover and reduced her stress from quickies. She was able to relax more. For me it was (still is) difficult but once I knew she was safe and her lover was a normal dude it got easier. By then she (we) did not require a condom (which was also an early rule of ours) and that made her sex more enjoyable as well. I was (am) a mixed bag of emotions during her overnights - especially if it were several nights. I was jealous, I was turned on, I was anxious. It's worked for us.
Torture is a great description. As much as it turns me on, the longer she spends away from me with him I experience a very mixed bag of emotions. In this age of instant communications it helps - I couldn't imagine her spending the night out of town away from me when we started in the early-80s.
That is an awesome story. My wife has been having sex with her married boss for years. I have always hoped that he would ask her to help him by providing sexual favors to some of his best customers.
We decided there will be no connections to the men she is with, if a connection starts, we/she ends it. Overnights are way too conducive for feeding a connection.
For us a week was the longest she’s been away and that was a real torture even though I loved it!
Just an update, she has been getting her holiday stuff ready and buying new clothes, bikinis and lingerie etc trying it on showing me and asking me if he will like it? It's surreal at times but very exciting for us both.
Recently did my first vacation with one of my lovers for a week, although in this instance hubby came with us.
REALLY had a wonderful sex filled week !!
REALLY had a wonderful sex filled week !!
When my wife is out-of-town with another guy all I can do is jerk off constantly. I love it!
I love it when my wife models clothing and asks me if her bf will like the outfit.
The maximum my wife has spent with a boyfriend is 2 nights and the day in between, but not out of town or overseas, now her current boyfriend has asked her out for a 5 day vacation to New Zealand (it is close by, we live in Australia), she has said No, but that she will think about it again. Her worries are
What if it does not work out on a vacation, then what...it will spoil it for ever
What if there is a safety issue, she has no way to reach me, but he is mild and we know him well
Finally who pays, even though she has been invited, how to discuss the money
Any ideas from more experienced friends are welcome
What if it does not work out on a vacation, then what...it will spoil it for ever
What if there is a safety issue, she has no way to reach me, but he is mild and we know him well
Finally who pays, even though she has been invited, how to discuss the money
Any ideas from more experienced friends are welcome
When the wife and a lover change anything about their situation, there is always some risk that it might change things in their relationship, but that is true of any relationship. From a safety risk standpoint....how much do you and your wife trust the boyfriend? If she is apprehensive at all about her safety she should not go on the trip.
As for the money...if he wants access to that pussy on his trip he needs to pay for everything. Besides, he invited her. He should want to show your wife a good time on the trip.
Thank you for the response, reading this with my wife, she reckons safety is not the biggest concern, he is a mild mannered married man, his wife and grown up children are here, of course he is not telling them (and wife has not told him that she is a hotwife, treating it like an affair) he is planning to tell his family it is a work conference in Auckland.
You have cleared our thinking about the money and payment....
Thanks heaps
Good for you, I am not allowed to wank without permission. Usually when she is away my mother in law comes over to make sure I obey rules. Bit of a weird one this is- long story short couple of years ago my mother in law caught my wife in the shower with her bull being fucked from behind. They than sat down later on with a glass of wine and my wife explained to her our lifestyle. As it turns out since my morher in law got divorced she didn’t live her life exactly as a nun so she sort of understood. To my humiliation I than had to show my tiny cock to her to prove I am the reason my wife has to have bulls. Since than, when my wife goes on a longer trip my mother in law is in charge of me and my dick...
Glad I could help. My wife prefers dating married men for the same reasons...family men who just enjoy the sex.
Several of our married friends have fucked my wife, most of them multiple times, and their wives have no idea that their husband is fucking my wife. I usually get to watch when my wife has sex with one of our friends but a few of them are uncomfortable with me watching, but they are aware that I know that they are fucking my wife.
My wife has had sex with men who know me who preferred that I not find out that they fucked my wife. Kate promised them she would never tell me but she always does LOL. I think it is erotic to be around men who have fucked my wife but who think that I don't know about it.
Same here, my wife also finds it more erotic pretending that it is an affair, she thinks that men will be put off if the know that she is a hotwife, just one of her boyfriend (now ex) knew that she was a hotwife. She believes that a hotwife is more transnational, whilst an (illicit) affair is more erotic and fun
My first wife had a two-year sexual affair with my boss and he thought that I did not know. My wife and I were just 21 and my boss was a much older married guy with kids. It was my idea that my wife seduce him. It was very erotic to work with him every day when he was fucking my hot young wife behind-my-back.
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