Women with under-endowed husbands

Newsflash guys - a big cock isn’t everything. There are plenty of ways to absolutely please a woman without having a giant piece of meat between your legs. In fact, my experience in the past of over 20 years in the swinging lifestyle is, most guys with big meat depend solely on that meat and usually think that’s all it takes to please a woman. Truth is, my ex said guys with smaller to average sized cocks were usually better at pleasing her. Flash forward to L, in looking for a guy to be her lover almost every guy with a big cock had a crappy attitude and expected her to fall over and spre her legs solely because they had a big cock and did not want to try to excite her, talk to her or flirt. In other words, they thought a big cock was all they needed. Guess what,if that’s all you bring, a big dildo will do the same and be a lot less pain in the ass and less work.
 
Newsflash guys - a big cock isn’t everything. There are plenty of ways to absolutely please a woman without having a giant piece of meat between your legs. In fact, my experience in the past of over 20 years in the swinging lifestyle is, most guys with big meat depend solely on that meat and usually think that’s all it takes to please a woman. Truth is, my ex said guys with smaller to average sized cocks were usually better at pleasing her. Flash forward to L, in looking for a guy to be her lover almost every guy with a big cock had a crappy attitude and expected her to fall over and spre her legs solely because they had a big cock and did not want to try to excite her, talk to her or flirt. In other words, they thought a big cock was all they needed. Guess what,if that’s all you bring, a big dildo will do the same and be a lot less pain in the ass and less work.
Well here is another newsflash - no one is going to tell me that a woman can enjoy a cock as small as these guys. Of course most of us know that a cock is not everything in a relationship but it is a big part in a lot of relationships. There are heaps of well hung guys who are respectable, loving good providers and really take care of their women. Admittedly there are the others that think that a huge cock is all it takes and they'll fall at his feet. They are the losers you'll find and there are many of them. My point was, why would a woman go so far as to marry a guy with a small penis if she can get something else that suits her. There are heaps of guys she can fall in love with if that is what she is wanting. "A big dildo will do the same", give me a break, next you'll be telling us that a male masturbating sleeve is as good as a real pussy. I'll take the pussy every time thanks.
 

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Sounds like you are fixated on cock a bit much, eh @QueenslandBull? Doth thou protest too much, perhaps? Any man who marries for big tits is in for trouble, same for women marrying for a big cock. Your fixating on women's choices makes me think they are but a proxy for your hungry ass. But no judgements. You do you LOL.
 
You may very well be a decent guy and well hung. There are exceptions to every rule. Just like there are women who are size queens. That said, these women who do have husbands don’t go in blind, and obviously they must be satisfied or they would not have gotten married to them To begin with. I’ll grant you there are guys with micro penis’ that obviously can’t please a woman, hell they cant even get it in. There again is the exception to the rule. Too many guys in here live in a fantasy world that is so far removed from reality it isn’t funny. Hell, half of them aren’t even attached and half of the rest that are attached have wives that they can’t even talk to about this site! That said, I stand by my original point.
 
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I wonder why women persevere with under-endowed husbands. Some of those men are really tiny. Surely they knew his size before they married. And the husband should know what she is missing out on and agree to her having another guy whenever she needs it. He is not out to steal her from him. Would be good to hear from a woman's perspective.
I fell in love with him. I had never been with a large one until recently .My husband told me he is 6 inches and thats average. Maybe so for white guys but I have seen a lot on line and they are bigger. I can have orgasms wih this guy by just intercouse,never did at all before
 
Quite frankly a stupid attitude. Yo could call me an old hand at this, having been with all sorts of men over the years. In terms of physical cock size there is a Goldilocks size. Sure there are some very small and very big examples, but the majority ore pretty average size and that works best for me.

The worst experiences I have had have been with young men with large cocks, they typically think they are gods gift and pound you like they are trying to demolish your pelvis. Beyond a certain size it becomes extremely unpleasant having a cock banging against your cervix, when combined with a poor attitude and lack of effort to give me pleasure, these are the worst experiences.

It is difficult to feel much from excessively small, especially when coupled with a fat belly that feels like you are being mounted by a giant slug. This extreme situation may result in some women seeking pleasure from a better endowed man, but this is the exception.

So many men have no idea what makes for a pleasurable experience for a woman. If you think what you see see in porn is a good example, think again! Give me an average sized cock attached to an attentive guy, that makes the effort to ensure I am having a good time over a comically large one used to bang my cervix into my throat any day.
 
Newsflash guys - a big cock isn’t everything. There are plenty of ways to absolutely please a woman without having a giant piece of meat between your legs. In fact, my experience in the past of over 20 years in the swinging lifestyle is, most guys with big meat depend solely on that meat and usually think that’s all it takes to please a woman. Truth is, my ex said guys with smaller to average sized cocks were usually better at pleasing her. Flash forward to L, in looking for a guy to be her lover almost every guy with a big cock had a crappy attitude and expected her to fall over and spre her legs solely because they had a big cock and did not want to try to excite her, talk to her or flirt. In other words, they thought a big cock was all they needed. Guess what,if that’s all you bring, a big dildo will do the same and be a lot less pain in the ass and less work.
Agree completely. we are both swingers. Occasionally I'll organise for a big cock to surprise my tight wife. She enjoys it but a he has to work up to it. In all honesty I've seen her enjoy an average sized cock much much more.

I also agree that guys with massive cocks have zero personality at all. They're often single lonely guys who are clueless about women and relationships.

Sure there are some size Queens but from my visits t o swingers clubs these are normally big fat women. They need a massive cock to get past their massive ass.

The big cock thing I think is something that men like to see their wives getting fucked by. Don't get me wrong I do like her fucking a big cock.

But I found she likes men in their late 20s early 30s as they tend to have more energy and stamina. I think that's the real treat fo r her. My wife is 45 btw.
 
Agree completely. we are both swingers. Occasionally I'll organise for a big cock to surprise my tight wife. She enjoys it but a he has to work up to it. In all honesty I've seen her enjoy an average sized cock much much more.

I also agree that guys with massive cocks have zero personality at all. They're often single lonely guys who are clueless about women and relationships.

Sure there are some size Queens but from my visits t o swingers clubs these are normally big fat women. They need a massive cock to get past their massive ass.

The big cock thing I think is something that men like to see their wives getting fucked by. Don't get me wrong I do like her fucking a big cock.

But I found she likes men in their late 20s early 30s as they tend to have more energy and stamina. I think that's the real treat fo r her. My wife is 45 btw.
Totally agree with @hotwifelexy. My ex-roommate had a huge 9” cock and had zero personality, and was a total asshole. He himself would say that women were lucky to have sex with him. He told me his typical sex session was letting a woman blow him and then just thrusting her as deep and hard as he could until he came, which would usually take 30 minutes. That’s it. Zero effort nor cares whether his big cock was hurting her. While we were roommates (we had bedrooms with a common wall) I was frequently treated to the sounds of his sex sessions. He would typically pick women up in bars, and bring them home after both of them were drunk. (No doubt he woman had to be drunk to tolerate him.) Every session sounded the same. They began with the woman making coughing and gagging noises while she sucked him (or should I say while he mouth-fucked them) and then the “oh my gods”, gasping, grunting and and yelping would start as he started pounding away. Once that began I knew i would be hearing his bed banging against my wall for 30 minutes with no pauses. How he was able to thrust for that long, with no breaks, without cumming was always amazing to me. But as was said, a big cock and 30 minutes of hammering a pussy impresses guys and their fantasies, and means zero in pleasuring a woman. That said, I would have loved to see him bang my gf at the time, now wife, with his big tool, but that was my fantasy, not hers. She wanted zero to do with him due to his asshole personality (despite having seen his big cock herself). He ended up marrying one of his conquests, a tall thin blonde who most would find attractive, but who was incredibly annoying and shallow - no surprise she was a lawyer by trade. A few times my gf now wife was over when one of my roommate’s sex sessions happened. I would tell her - listen to this! She would start blowing me while we listened to the gagging from the other room, and then mount me when the banging started. Within a minute she would be cumming multiple times while on top as she listened. After she was done, I would bang her tight Asian pussy doggy style and then put her legs over my shoulders and go deep until I came. All of that would take 10 minutes and then we would marvel as we listened to my roommate pound away for another 20 minutes. One time he went for an hour and I got hard again and my wife and I fucked a second time and finished while he was still pounding away LOL. My wife said “He must be murdering her with that big cock!” I guess some women would enjoy that treatment from a huge cock and tolerate the asshole attached to it but I would imagine they are few and far between.
 
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Quite frankly a stupid attitude. Yo could call me an old hand at this, having been with all sorts of men over the years. In terms of physical cock size there is a Goldilocks size. Sure there are some very small and very big examples, but the majority ore pretty average size and that works best for me.

The worst experiences I have had have been with young men with large cocks, they typically think they are gods gift and pound you like they are trying to demolish your pelvis. Beyond a certain size it becomes extremely unpleasant having a cock banging against your cervix, when combined with a poor attitude and lack of effort to give me pleasure, these are the worst experiences.

It is difficult to feel much from excessively small, especially when coupled with a fat belly that feels like you are being mounted by a giant slug. This extreme situation may result in some women seeking pleasure from a better endowed man, but this is the exception.

So many men have no idea what makes for a pleasurable experience for a woman. If you think what you see see in porn is a good example, think again! Give me an average sized cock attached to an attentive guy, that makes the effort to ensure I am having a good time over a comically large one used to bang my cervix into my throat any day.
HMM I was with my husband and 4 others in my entire llife .Just had the first big one ,I prefer big
 
Quite frankly a stupid attitude. Yo could call me an old hand at this, having been with all sorts of men over the years. In terms of physical cock size there is a Goldilocks size. Sure there are some very small and very big examples, but the majority ore pretty average size and that works best for me.

The worst experiences I have had have been with young men with large cocks, they typically think they are gods gift and pound you like they are trying to demolish your pelvis. Beyond a certain size it becomes extremely unpleasant having a cock banging against your cervix, when combined with a poor attitude and lack of effort to give me pleasure, these are the worst experiences.

It is difficult to feel much from excessively small, especially when coupled with a fat belly that feels like you are being mounted by a giant slug. This extreme situation may result in some women seeking pleasure from a better endowed man, but this is the exception.

So many men have no idea what makes for a pleasurable experience for a woman. If you think what you see see in porn is a good example, think again! Give me an average sized cock attached to an attentive guy, that makes the effort to ensure I am having a good time over a comically large one used to bang my cervix into my throat any day.
Have often seen men with huge cocks banging wives, and obviously it hurts them. I have 9 and half, but always probed the cervix softly and it opens up and accepts the cock and sucks onto it. Stimulating gently bring on the climax.
 
Have often seen men with huge cocks banging wives, and obviously it hurts them. I have 9 and half, but always probed the cervix softly and it opens up and accepts the cock and sucks onto it. Stimulating gently bring on the climax.
I found playing teasing my wife with a big dildo she opens up and soon she wiggling grinding getting all of it in her. Be hot seeing a real cock doing the same.
 
I have an affair partner who's husband is a true micro-penis sufferer. He's less than 3/4" even maximally aroused and full erect (if you can call his little nub an erection). She tells me she stays because divorce is a sin (yes, cognitive dissonance is at play here), her religion is the main reason she hasn't left him.

He is sexually useless, other than as a target of her humiliation.
 
We have been married for 57 years and I was aware from the start that my wife would need more than I could give her, I was a little below average at barely five inches she was happy with that for a while, by the time she was 30 she was getting bored and was happy to have someone else fuck her when I suggested it, she had a range of men including one very big one he was eight inches plus and very nearly as big round as a Coke can, he was a bachelor but had learn to control his self so she could take her time to accommodate him, she loved it it really got her off and he had access to for almost 20 years, eventually being older than her he was unable to to the job as he had and she began looking around for another cock to keep her happy, this time he was just about average or a little better but nothing outstanding like the previous guy, they soon learnt each other's likes and dislikes and he turned out to be a very attentive lover and makes her orgasm five or six times whenever they meet, she tells me that it even beats the big guy she was having before, me well I just started to shrinking 15 or more years ago when I started taking meds for hypertension I then had cancer and chemotherapy which shrunk my dick even more. I know have prostrate problems and am on meds for that which has shrunk my dick to about an inch and a half when it is hard if I can get it hard, she lost all interest in it years ago when it first started to shrink, I think we have seen most sides of the coin over the years and can honestly say I don't think it matters what size you are it's how you use it that counts and how you treat her as a lover yes in her case I just got too small for her to bother with it as she claimed it did nothing for her as she just couldn't feel it.