Well Don Brown from BC . Meet Don Brown from outside Toronto glad to meet you. Would love to see pics posted of both of you . Your wife and yourself naked.
You have to make her the center of every thing. Let her know that no matter what you will always love her. Find some one that will help you to flirt with her, show her she is sexy,then maybe she will come around.But don't push she will recent that and pull away thinking that you don't want her any more.
First I have to tell you New Mexico is right next to Arizona And Texas Just south of Colorado. We are still in USA. Second I'll help you anyway I can. I'm 65 years old and when I say I've been there done that I realy have. So there is nothing you can ask or say that I have not heard or done.
Do you still play with a lot of women or couples.
New mexico would be fun i think