Girl talk: how much do my wife's friends know?

My wife is very conservative with her friends but there is 1 girlfriend in particular who brought out the 'naughty' side of her. The lady was a work colleague as well as a friend. She was married but also seeing a married guy at work. They were literally fucking in the office as they had no where else to go and she confided all in my wife.
My wife told me what was going on but it was only when I looked at her phone that I saw how intimate the messages were - about how big he was, how he lasted so long and made her orgasm much harder than her husband ever could. My wife had obviously been aroused by all this and commented how much she wish I performed better and lasted longer and 'what she wouldn't give for an extra inch'!
Embarrassing when we used to meet up with this lady and her husband as the 2 girls knew a lot about us men and our performance or lack of it.
 
We've been into mfm fun with a guy we know off and on for 5 years. Started off very infrequent. 3 times in about a year and a half. It's been a pretty regular thing for us for about a year now.
We're mid 50s, we have a pretty big circle of social friends.
We have some very hot fun with our friend but we both have some guilt about the whole thing. WHILE we're doing it it's fantastic, she's horney as fuck for days after and we have a lot of good sex. We don't talk about what we do with him. Again WHILE we're doing it she's a whole different person, she fucks us both like crazy, she gets really turned on. We take turns doing her.
We agreed we won't tell anyone about what we do. How in the world could I tell my guy friends I get into having another guy in our bed ???
One night we'd just finished having sex, just us. She tells me she told one of her close co-workers, I'm like WTF ? Evidently the co-worker is into black guys and has one she sees a couple of times a week, hubby has no idea.
As far as I know wife hasn't told anyone else. I've never told anyone.
 
My wife has mentioned a number of times that she and her friends don't have any secrets when it comes to sex-talk. She's related a few intimate details her friends have revealed (e.g. one whose husband would rather jack off to porn than have sex so she had to resort to a dildo, another friend with an open marriage who goes on week-long trips to fuck around).

I therefore wonder just how much they know about me. Do they know my size? My stamina? My little kinks? When they see me in social situations do their minds immediately go there (hmm... not much girth, usually 30 seconds, 3 minutes at most, likes a vibe in his butt)?
Oh they know....women are worse than men...lol
 
My late wife's best friend was a hotwife and helped her over the top. Her bestie has been a hotwife for decades and she hosted occasional Friday night parties for them.

Occasionally they had 'partied' together.
My wife's best friend at work, Leslie is a hotwife - it doesn't appear that my wife will ever go for it but interestingly, she came home from work a few weeks ago after doing manual handling training (she's a nurse) and said "Leslie thought the guy who did our training was very handsome". As the conversation carried on it was pretty clear my wife thought the same. He was a tall, Punjabi guy who according to my wife "was so masculine" and "so muscular. You could tell through his shirt that he didn't have any fat on him".

It also turned out he selected my wife (or possibly she volunteered) to be the class guinea pig where they practiced moving her from bed to stretcher etc. At some point he had said something like "Now remember your patients will be much bigger than this. [Wife's Name] is tiny so she's easy to pick up from the bed".

I imagine she and Leslie talked about his size, masculinity and even his laying his hands on my wife, moving her easily from bed-to-bed and speculating about his sexual prowess. If this conversation went on at any length my size and (in particular) lack of stamina would likely have been referenced. It turns me on so much to think of my wife and her friend laughing at me and fantasising about a good, hard fuck from this macho guy.
 
They know everything..more things that you know lol
It's funny because Leslie (hotwife referenced above) always smiles broadly when we meet at parties. It's hard to be sure but it's almost like there's suppressed laughter in that smile. I always wonder if it's because she knows I'm a minute man with a small-average cock who likes butt-play. Turns me on to think she's probably ruled me out as a sexual partner due to what my wife's told her about me.
 
Hot. Do you ever discover the lack of activity is due to hubby not being much good at it?
TBH it’s been a bit of a mixed bag but in that sense, it’s no different to picking up a random guy, you don’t know ‘til you try. And there is the thrill of having a taste of ‘forbidden fruit’, it isn’t just guys who get off on that xx
 
More turned on when I find out that they and their husbands aren’t very active in the bedroom and that therefore their husbands might be easily tempted x
Way before I was married I was seeing a happy married older gal. She often told me how after she was with me she'd go home and have good sex with her husband. He had no idea she was seeing me. They had a good sex life. I was just something extra she enjoyed.
 
My wife is very conservative with her friends but there is 1 girlfriend in particular who brought out the 'naughty' side of her. The lady was a work colleague as well as a friend. She was married but also seeing a married guy at work. They were literally fucking in the office as they had no where else to go and she confided all in my wife.
My wife told me what was going on but it was only when I looked at her phone that I saw how intimate the messages were - about how big he was, how he lasted so long and made her orgasm much harder than her husband ever could. My wife had obviously been aroused by all this and commented how much she wish I performed better and lasted longer and 'what she wouldn't give for an extra inch'!
Embarrassing when we used to meet up with this lady and her husband as the 2 girls knew a lot about us men and our performance or lack of it.
it,s even hotter and a big turn on for me when wife confess to her friends ,with me closeby,that she wish i had a bigger cock and how she embarrassed me when she made me watch when she fucked a big dildo she bought to make her cum everytime she used him ,so much better than me