Wife knows now, next steps

[Cuckoldcouple99]

She's already cheating on you..

Nah that's not the case. We are super domestic. Work and taking care of our kids. There is literally no time to socialize with other adults unless we explicitly make time to do it.

I also probably have a way different definition of cheating then you do. If she went out there and fucked around on me, that's not cheating, she knows there is a consent and a desire on my part for her to do that. Mostly i'd just want to be clued into the details and how it happened.

I am literally trying to encourage her to make time to do things with her friends and asking her to be a little slutty while she is out with them. So far that's been a miss most the time, she is far more interested in doing things as a couple and scoping out the scene that way. Right now, that seems to be what we are planning on doing once we get to the summer months.

You know I finally got her to do some vids/pictures too. She doesn't want to post/share anything yet, but even that was a huge step in the last couple months. Things have been moving along great honestly.

 

[Tjmill]

Nah that's not the case. We are super domestic. Work and taking care of our kids. There is literally no time to socialize with other adults unless we explicitly make time to do it.

I also probably have a way different definition of cheating then you do. If she went out there and fucked around on me, that's not cheating, she knows there is a consent and a desire on my part for her to do that. Mostly i'd just want to be clued into the details and how it happened.

I am literally trying to encourage her to make time to do things with her friends and asking her to be a little slutty while she is out with them. So far that's been a miss most the time, she is far more interested in doing things as a couple and scoping out the scene that way. Right now, that seems to be what we are planning on doing once we get to the summer months.

You know I finally got her to do some vids/pictures too. She doesn't want to post/share anything yet, but even that was a huge step in the last couple months. Things have been moving along great honestly.

Sounds like you're both moving along nicely. This should be a great summer!

 

[BigJake]

The background on this is;

I didn't actually have this fetish until we were fucking around one day and she was talking about past sexual experiences and mentioned her ex boyfriend fucked her while his brother watched. She said the brother got out his dick and she basically showed him her tits while she was being fucked while laying down on her stomach. She said the whole thing didn't last very long but the story has been brought up multiple times in the past and she really enjoys me talking about her fucking other men (and occasionally I can get her to either talk through a story or scenario on her own when we are fucking or she is giving a blowjob.

Anyway bottom line, she gets insanely wet and will get off during these talks, much faster than usual. But actually broaching the subject has resulted in her turning down the idea of doing things in person. She also loves watching cuckold themed porn or swinger type stuff.

Anyway, not sure if this is where it ends or what. Next steps aren't clear because she is a hard no so far on doing any meet up type things, but I feel like she has gotten way more used to the idea over the years. She also is losing weight and is starting to look much healthier and sexy (basically down to 130 pounds after our kids were born and she got heavier).

Arrange for a guy to teach you both massage.
Then pre-plan with him how if she responds you can have it go further.
This way she a polite way out if there is no chemistry.