I love the way most white women react to us black women when we are assertive with them. It doesn't have to be over-the-top assertive, just enough to indicate that she better not mess with me. My posture and tone of voice, accompanied by direct eye contact, let them know their place. I discovered that advantage as a teen and have enjoyed it ever since, improving my technique as I age. Even with women who are not overtly bi or lesbian, there is usually something of a sexual response as well as assuming a submissive attitude.