No rude downgrading talking, no groping, hard handling, no punishment, no anal.
Scatting and blood have never been talked about, so for sure off the table for me and her, but she really enjoy giving me a golden shower surprisingly, especially when facesitting. Not often, but often enough to keep it kinky.
She enjoy being blindfolded and tied up, and I think it is just a matter of time before we involve a third part.
Our fantasies have stepped up quite a bit, so really just finding the right one who fits in our story.
So far no luck with a lady. Thought we made some progress awhile ago, but she shut that door suddenly, and will not play that story anymore.