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My wife and I have played at swingers clubs, but never with any intercourse. We have talked about her becoming a hotwife, but we have not pulled the trigger. Goal is to convince her to take it to the next level for real and fuck her first guy. The pictures are real and recent of her.

Right now I (husband) am looking for advice on how to convert her fully to a hotwife.

Our background if your are so inclined to help:

Is there anyone who is experienced in hotwife-ing and/or cuckolding, who can read our background and give advice on how to get my wife to fuck her first bull?

So, my wife and I did soft swap on at a crazy romantic exotic swingers clubs in Paris a few years back before we got married. We participated in orgies, fucked each other in front of like 20 people watching us. We planned to only go one night in Paris on vacation, but she wanted to go back every night, so we did. We tried American swing clubs, but they suck compared to the one's in Paris which make you feel like you are in the movie "Eyes Wide Shut." We have been together 7 years (married 5, as this is our second marriage for both of us). We have great sex life. She is early 40s very multi-orgasmic and very beautiful.

After she cums and wants me to cum faster, she will start roll playing that I am another man with a huge dick, sometimes she will pretend I am a young hung guy, sometimes a hung black guy. It appears that she does not do this for her, but that she does this, primarily because she knows it turns me on and will make me cum almost right away. "Fuck me, cum in me, your so much bigger than my husband." She will suck my finger and say, "I am sucking his dick." Afterwards, I USED to say, it is only a fantasy, "I don't want you to fuck anyone else," and she would say, "good, I don't want to fuck another guy."

But about a One year and 1/2 ago, I started to open up about how I REALLY wanted it to happen. I would ask her to tell me stories about guys she has fucked in the past. She later said that she just made up those stories about threesomes with two guys in the past, just to get me excited, but I am not sure that is true, because she is the horniest woman that I have ever met in my life. Then I stopped telling her about my fantasies, because I think she got sick of me talking about it. She would tell me, "I just want you to be you, and me to be me and it to be romantic tonight." I think she felt that I just wanted her to use as a sex object (she is super hot), so I stopped to prove that she really is the love of my life (which she is totally). However, without me asking she would still make dirty "cuckold roll play talk" when she wanted me to cum faster, or she was a little drunk and wanted to spice things up.

But I fantasize about this every single day and nearly every time we have sex.

Then right before the pandemic, I said we would go to Paris again. I said this time I want to go back to that club. I asked her flat out, "it would really turn me on to watch you fuck a guy or to have you fuck another guy and tell me about it in Paris, and I would want the guy to be someone who really turned you on, who you thought was hot." She seemed hesitant, and she said, "well I feel like you won't go to Paris unless we go to a swingers club and I fuck some guy." She said, "I am not sure I want to fuck another guy." I said no, I wanted to go back no matter what, she seemed to think about it for a minute, and she didn't say yes right away. However, she said, "ok, if you take me back to Paris, I promise that I will pick out a guy to fuck there." For us, Paris was the most erotic real life fantasy ever. However, she said this once before like 4 years ago on a trip to New Orleans (earlier in our relationship), but then said she was just kidding about fucking another guy.

But the Pandemic was terrible for us. We have bickered a lot, and sex was kind of mechanical for awhile. However, I have noticed if I really romance the stone with her, she fucks my brains out and wants to watch porn with me, and she will always want to do a search for "real amateur Paris swingers club."

For the last several weeks or so, we have started to feel like our selves again, and sex has been getting better and better. We have really been sweet to each other, really caring and romantic with each other and we have gotten along really well. She will comment on how hot I look and we flirt like teenagers with each other again.

So LAST WEEKEND (January 2021), I brought it up hotwife-ing like a real proposal, not just as in roll play. Here is what we said on the couch while we were watching a movie after a few drinks:

Me: "I know I joke all the time, but I am dead serious, it would actually turn me on if you had sex with another man. I would never sleep with another woman, and have no desire too." Me: "so if you really wanted to fuck another man, even without telling me first, it would turn me on and I would be more than okay with it, don't ever think twice about it." She said, "I know that it would really turn you on...So wait.... I can choose ANYONE who I want to fuck?" (I am not sure if she was
testing me here to see if I would get jealous, which I did not). Me: "Yes, of course you can choose who you would fuck." Her: "even if he is really really fucking hot." Me: "Absolutely, I am very serious, I promise it would not effect our marriage at all or make me jealous." Her: "what if I already know the guy? Even if it is a guy I have already fucked?" Me: "Absolutely, I promise" Her: "okay!" Then I dropped it. I didn't want to pressure her too much at this point.

Do I wait some more and be romantic with her? I think I should wait till she has a few drinks and is a little Horney first. How should I do this? I am really really really serious about her hotwifing. I am dying for her to start to fuck other guys. I cannot stop thinking about it. I really want to ask her about that conversation and as if she could fuck some one from her past again, who would it be.

CAN ANYONE GIVE ANY ADVISE? ANY COUPLES, HUSBANDS, or HOTWIVES OUT THERE, THAT CAN TELL ME HOW TO CONVINCE HER TO JUST DO IT?

My goal is to update as I make progress, have her finally fuck a bull and then invite members here to fuck her..... WISH ME LUCK