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We’ll both be 40 next year, so feeling it’s at least the right time. Haven’t ever done BDSM in all our years. Hoping our talk/session is the start of us opening up about all of these things finally.

We haven’t even entered the lifestyle yet, just about to approach the topic. Major fantasy of mine has been for her to have a regular boyfriend with a ton of sexual and emotional chemistry between the two of them. They wouldn’t have any boundaries or restrictions, so lots of bareback and even...

Great tip. Good news is that she was open to the vibrator idea. She actually mentioned it first when I vaguely brought up the idea of spicing up our sex life, so I ran out and bought a couple of things. I have been dropping comments to her lately that her arousal is what turns me on more than...

Haven’t even mentioned this fantasy to my wife. Started dating in college, and married for almost 13 years. It’s a pretty bland and stagnant sex life right now. I’d like to float the idea but am a little worried about the reaction.