Recent content by edcooke

My comment on this is that you are obviously leaving us hanging as to the very question that you posed, that is: what have you done and, by inference, what are the consequences of letting your wife go on her "date." The immediate consequence, of course, is obvious. She had sex with her date...

Essentially that is what happened. We are now divorced, I don't see her any more and don't care what she is doing and I'm pretty sure that my sex life is over. While there's therefore nothing for me to say that would be of interest to those on the site, I admit that I have developed a bit of...

Wives who are considering acting on advice in this string of posts may want to consider as well the potential impact of doing so on their marriages. The ongoing saga introduced in the post "Advice for ...... Cuckold" addresses this subject, from the perspective of the husband (me). Some men...

Your comment about distrust and lack of love being the main issues is probably right, and it seems clear from your correspondence that your marriage doesn't suffer from either of those. With my wife, I don't know what to believe any more. I thought I knew her, but I obviously didn't. She...

It is a bit callous to say that my marriage was "nearly sexless". I always did everything I could to satisfy her sexually. It took her 30 years to tell me something was wrong, From her recent revelations she's been cheating for our entire marriage, and never gave me a chance to meet what...

I apologize if the woman in the photos is your wife. I thought they were stock photos of a model or actress.

I'm sure that this is well meant; certainly it is a highly polished presentation featuring an absolutely gorgeous, alluring actress; and I do have a sense of humor. However, it (particularly the quote in the first one) is a bit close to home for me right now. I'm not going to include them in...

While I realize that we were not discussing matters of ontological significance, doesn't that comment lower the level of discourse rather severely?

What she said about her pregnancies did strike me as very "cold" at the time, and is just another respect in which her "true" self may differ radically from who she pretended to be. If she had come to me and said she was pregnant with another man's ......, what would I have done? Would I have...

Let me again express my thanks to those on this site that tried to help me navigate through my very distressing situation. I was accorded more respect by those of you than by my wife. I decided to leave my home today and told my wife so, noting my doubts that she loves me, and my certainty...

She insisted that I look at the site, in an attempt to convince me to participate in the "cuckold lifestyle." Without my knowledge she had apparently opened an account here IN MY NAME several months ago. Before I looked through some of the cuckolding message-strings, to try to show good faith...

as to your question, she SAID she suggested cuckolding because she thought I would enjoy it and because she loves me wants me to be happy. She is possessive, but I don't know whether she would accept an open relationship. In any event, I don't and therefore haven't suggested that as an...

To those of you who have offered insight over the last week on dealing with the upheaval in my life caused by my wife's affairs, thank you. While I had hoped there was some magic bullet that I would find to recover a happy marriage, I suppose that I should have known that every such...

What you describe is exactly where I am, but in the reverse chronology (this came up for us, or at least comes to a head, after almost 30 years of marriage). Thanks so much for sharing your experience and perspective. I don't know that I am capable of living with the same solution, but the...