Recent content by SaltnPepper

What's the update, did she end up with another dude while you watched? ~Salt

I whole agree 100%...too worried about what others will think or say.

This is definitely a different perspective, coming from the third party. It is a welcome perspective though because you made some very valid points. I have definitely thought about who we would invite, if this were to move forward. I know there are pros and cons to inviting someone you know...

I tell Pepper that she probably knows a few people who are in the lifestyle but she just doesn't know it. Not everyone is comfortable with letting others know their personal business when it comes to this. I agree with you that many women would like to engage in this type of lifestyle but taboo...

I'm hoping to make these kind of memories with my wife. As I've stated before, I've explained to her that it is a lot more common and that she probably knows some people who engage in this type of relationship but just doesn't tell her. ~Salt

Another post with great advice. I very much like the idea of her getting a massage, especially if it's her first time. I have suggested for her to receive a nuru massage which I think would be super sexy to watch. I'm just not sure if they have those types of massages around here (SE Wisconsin)...

I explained to my wife as well that this is something that is a lot more common than many people realize. I also explain that this is just one type of open marriage whereas there are several other types. Of course, doing a study would be a little difficult because some people are not open to...

I appreciate you sharing your experience and giving solid advice. I agree trust has to be there. I am not a jealous type but I understand what you say about it maybe ruin its head a bit but if we have complete trust and jealousy becomes short lived and passes quickly. Very good advice from...

She definitely thought that I was looking to be with another woman because she straight up asked if that was what I was looking for. I told her it wasn't and that I just want to see her with another man, and an MFM. I have explained to her how much it would turn me on to see her with another...

That is what my wife believes and I have attempted to help her understand that I do love her even though I want this kind of fantasy to become a reality. She is having a hard time understanding why I would want to watch another man give it to her. ~Salt

I have to say that you definitely went through some steps to get to where you are at. I've been through a couple of them, although maybe not in the same order and definitely not with the same progress. I'm glad that she came around and I take it you guys are continuing in the lifestyle? ~Salt

I was in the same boat when I brought up a MFM threesome to my wife. At first, I didn't tell her what type of threesome but when I did I think she was a little relieved but also a little confused because she would have thought that I would have wanted two women. I also explained that I was not...

Only if she were to say that it's okay and at the moment it is not. ~Salt

I wish I had your problems. 😉 ~Salt

You are talking about a male female male threesome, right? ~Salt