So I'm just curious, why do YOU want her to be a hotwife? What are you getting out of it, and are you two secure enough in your marriage that her fucking another man, with whom she obviously has very good chemistry, that things won't get damaged? :)
Are you submissive to your wife? My first thought is that, assuming she knew this was a fantasy of yours, that she went ahead and did it anyway without you involved at all, AND she knew others were in the other room, so SHE didn't care if you got outed. So my thinking is either that she's...