Recent content by Stevens4fun

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    Aruba in April 2026

    We like Chalet Suisse for fine dining, Gasparito is also good. Sports bar at the Marriott Surf Club. There's a nice restaurant down by the Lighthouse too. "Trattoria," I think it's called. One of the casinos by Eagle Beach is good for meeting people. Can't remember the name, but you'll know it...
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    Our hookup with a couple

    My wife and I had one experience that was completely different than what we expected. It was late 1980s (yes, I'm an old MFer). Before the early 2000s, there was no talk about “bulls, cuckolds, BBCs, FLMs,” and all that recently invented stuff that's designed to sell porn, although “hotwives”...
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    Seduce your wife?

    Is seduction a lost art these days? The thrill of the chase? If you watch some of the older "R" rated or racy movies, you'll see how it plays out, both men and women seducing others, but unlike today, there's seldom a graphic representation of the actual act. the camera just pans up the ceiling...
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    Men-Bulls what kind of wives are you into?

    I've asked my wife this question several times over the years (she enjoys talking about it), and she's been very consistent. And she's walked the talk. These are the attributes. Any ethnicity as long as they are: realistic (understand a married couples [with older kids still in the house] time...
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    Aruba in April 2026

    Exactly, - down in those dunes. But bring an extra blanket or sheet from your hotel to put over you to keep the sand out. Wind blows all the time down there. By the second time my wife and I went to Aruba (we went every year for quite a while as she had a boyfriend who lived there - the first...
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    Aruba in April 2026

    Mostly topless. Wife and I make it a point to drive by at least once a day and check out the scenery. As you know, the beach is right across the street from one of the timeshare resorts used by Europeans when they are on their annual summer vacations. It's right next door to a big RCI property...
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    Best place to find a man to fuck your wife??

    Exactly. Guys who really crave the idea of sharing their wife will never achieve it unless they can put their wife in the right environment to meet guys and be her sexy self. Going to a swing club or party is a big step unless she's done that before. Going to the right bar with hotel...
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    Do You think that alcohol makes easier wife open to other man ?

    Life is good.... Wife and I were both divorced at the time, and had been single for a while. A few months after we started dating, we were in my bed and naked at my condo, and drinking margaritas. She'd had a couple, I'd had one (and thankfully, was still able to get hard at that point!). It...
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    the lover and the cuck

    Shortly after my wife and I married, we'd already enjoyed a couple of mfm's with an old friend of hers, and I was well aware that several of her male coworkers had been privileged guests in her bed. I definitely married the right woman. We were at a company dinner for her company one night (it...
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    Aruba in April 2026

    Eagle Beach? One of our favs. Across from the timeshares....perfect setting, and we try to drive by there as often as possible for the scenery. Hasn't been as good lately, though. :-)))
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    Couples into mfm/cuck fun Does it improve your sex life?

    That's the bottom line. Absolute truth.
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    Best place to find a man to fuck your wife??

    We only had one situation when we were in the hotel room and my wife called it off. She lied (gracefully) and said she'd like to reschedule, but that she had the cramps. She didn't have the cramps at all. It was becoming clear to both of us that the guy hadn't showered before meeting us at the...
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    Couples into mfm/cuck fun Does it improve your sex life?

    A fun post. We loved it and we both say yes but some things do change. Marital sex with just my wife and I when she had longer term relationships with BFs was more intense, but less frequent. She loved controlling the when and where of it all.
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    Everyday couples that enjoy occasional mfm fun - how do you find the guy ?

    Fun post! We found that certain bars in our town were the path to finding a man fast, and she could see them in action. We also found it was best if we went as a couple - that helped us avoid guys who have hangups about another guy (me!) being in the bed. There's still a lot of them. The bars...
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    Replacment

    What worked best for us was my wife having a long term BF. Or as some put it, FWB. Playing this way satisfied her sexual and emotional needs and addressed one of the most difficult challenges of expanding the boundaries of our marital sex lives: the logistics. A couple where both work full time...