Recent content by Tbird

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    How do I know?

    so i told hubby everything and he said he suspected I was cheating but wasn't going to say anything. He told me he knew that he was not satisfying me in bed and that troubled him but he didn't want to lose me either. We worked out a plan with my current bf and hubby is going to rent out the...
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    How do I know?

    I think there is a huge amount of good advice in all those replies and I am going to take it all on board. I understand that I should think about the harm I may be doing to hubby. Lets leave it at that as I dont think further discussion is needed.
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    How do I know?

    thank you for that unnecessary piece of codswallop :mad:. I did not say all black men are poor. That would be stupid. What I was suggesting was that there is little chance of my meeting another wealthy man, black, white or brindle. Women like me dont get many chances in the wealthy stakes...
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    How do I know?

    Thank you all for the advice. I knew I picked the right forum for this. You are all clearly far more intelligent than I am. I dont want to risk hubby throwing me out. I have a thing about being poor again. So I am thinking that I need to talk to my boyfriend and tell him to back off and if...
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    How do I know?

    I just joined here so be kind if you can. I have been married for 4 years and for the last 3 of those I have been cheating on hubby with several different black men. We are both white. Up until recently it has been just casual sex with no complications but I have been seeing one particular guy...