theAdventurable

The primary user of this account is the male in a hotwife relationship. I would consider myself a stag or cuckold adjacent, but not an actual cuck. With that being said, I fully support cucks and admire them for being so selfless. If I can be of any encouragement, please let me know.

I studied evolution and human sexuality in college as a part of my degree and learned a lot of interesting facts that blew my mind and changed my perspective on sex. Below is a summary of some of the things I learned. I think everyone here would enjoy knowing it as well. It's quite justifying.


I'm not sure how much you know or remember about the theory of evolution, but it's pretty simple. It's all about survival of the fittest. The healthier, more fit an individual or species is, the more likely it is to survive and produce offspring. Weaker offspring die off and stronger offspring survive to reproduce again. Over time, with enough crossbreeding to maximize genetic variation, this leads to the betterment of a species. Humans have evolved in a way that essentially amplifies this natural selection and is likely a major factor for why we're the most advanced species on our planet - by far. So, let me lay out a few interesting facts. Keep in mind, the result of each of these facts is better, more successful offspring which gives our species a competitive edge over other species - the entire point of evolution and how we will continue to become better versions of ourselves.

Fact 1:
The human penis is the only penis in the animal kingdom with a ridged, bulbous head on it. This has 2 purposes:
1) It's more pleasurable to women which encourages them to desire more sex more often, resulting in more offspring. The more offspring produced, the more likely the species will thrive.
2) That particular bell shape naturally creates a vacuum when pulling out of a woman's vaginal canal. It's theorized that this evolved to pull out any sperm already deposited from other competing men. The reason for this theory will make more sense with the next few facts. But, ultimately, it helps the current partner's sperm have a better chance of fertilization simply due to him having more sperm left after pulling some of the competing sperm out.

Fact 2:
Most of a man's sperm is not even able to impregnate. A significant amount of a man's sperm is nicknamed killer sperm because its sole purpose is to seek and destroy the sperm of other competing men already inside a woman.The existence of these specialized sperm are only possible if most women were very promiscuous for most of our history.

Fact 3:
In primates, it has been shown that promiscuity correlates with the ratio of the testicle to body size. If several males mate frequently with each female, each male has to deposit enough sperm to compete with the presence of sperm from the other males. Natural selection will favor the male that can deposit the largest number of sperm; therefore, the sperm-producing testicles are greater in mass (as compared to body mass) for promiscuous species than for those that are monogamous. On average, human males have a testicle to body size ratio that lines up with other promiscuous species.

What could the purpose possibly be for that? It would only evolve and be widespread if women were being activity promiscuous for thousands upon thousands of generations - meaning being promiscuous is literally in our DNA.

Fact 4:
When the sperm of multiple men are competing inside a woman, hormones are released that make her more receptive to pregnancy (assuming no birth control and the timing is right). This is likely because sperm competition results in stronger offspring. The weaker sperm is more likely to be killed off, making it much more likely that the surviving sperm that makes it to the egg is going to be of better quality.

Fact 5:
Pheromones are released when a female mates that makes her more desirable to other males, even if the woman was cheating and her partner was unaware of it. Again, it's an evolutionary advantage for our species that increases the likelihood for females to be seeded by multiple male partners, resulting in more sperm competition and more genetic diversity that prevents recessive genetic diseases and increased genetic combinations for further potential evolution.

Bonus Fact 1:
(This isn't included in any official scientific literature that I've found so far. But it's factual nonetheless and lines up with the theory we're about to get to.) Men only have one penis to fuck with, only one type of orgasm, and usually need significant recovery time between sessions. Women have 3 fuckable holes and (with some exceptions) can have multiple, continuous, and varied orgasms.

Bonus Fact 2:
Studies have found that women who let men ejaculate inside them regularly are happier than women who don't. There are hormones in a woman's reproductive tract that are activated by the presence of semen. They are hormonal anti-anxiety and antidepressants that elevate dopamine and other hormones associated with happiness and mental stability. This is likely an evolutionary trait that encouraged our ancestors to have sex regularly to reproduce more often, but today is purely an added health benefit of regular unprotected sex. This is why women have long reported having a “glow” about them, post-coitus. This benefit is greatly amplified when a woman regularly receives sperm from multiple men.

Bonus Fact 3:
Related to Fact 5, when a woman cheats, her pheromones will trigger increased testosterone levels in her partner even if he is unaware. This results in greater sperm production, stronger erections, and more aggressive and dominant behavior. Properly channeled, this leads to better sex to reclaim his partner and the increased sperm count helps him be more competitive with the other men she's cheating with. This isn't present in all men, but many - even if they don't know she's cheating. It explains the large underground community of men who enjoy sharing their woman with other men.

Conclusion:
There are lots of studies and papers on all of these. They have been combined into something called the Sperm Competition Theory. Together, they present a very compelling case that humanity is as advanced as it is specifically because of our innate desire to be promiscuous - especially women. The only reason for most of these traits to develop is if our species has a long history of promiscuity.

Please keep in mind that due to the random nature of evolution, even the smallest changes take thousands of generations to evolve. So, this practice of promiscuous women would have to have been a widespread practice for thousands, if not millions of years - something hardwired into our DNA at this point. It's as natural as breathing. Denying that fact is denying ourselves.
So, slutty behavior is actually what nature intends. Cheating and other promiscuous behaviors are written into our DNA. We likely wouldn't be here without it. Only with religion and social philosophies did we start teaching monogamy.

With that being said, even many religious teachings such as Christianity hint at the need for it. Promiscuousness was prominent in the old testament. Actual profits and men of God had multiple wives, had sex and children with their wives‘ relatives, their own relatives, servants, concubines, and whores. They were commanded to go forth and multiply… apparently with everyone they came into contact with - which makes sense. DNA variation is critical. So religion, nature, everything indicates that we should be and are naturally promiscuous.

So, why is this behavior broadly shamed and hidden from the public eye now? Denying positive aspects of our nature is obviously unhealthy. However, evolution is random and has developed another trait that is antithetical to promiscuity: jealousy. Jealousy is a form of selfishness. This likely reared its head, concerning sex, a few thousand years ago with the advent of marriage.

Marriage was originally created as part of the division of property arrangements that helped prevent wars between tribes. While there was a good aspect to this (joining of families for war prevention), there were obviously plenty of bad aspects as well. Over time, marriage became more common, integrated into religion, and romanticized to where many now believe love and sex are interconnected and depend on each other.

However, we still have our primal, natural instincts to be curious about and even crave sex with others. This, and the social shame for having these natural feelings, create an internal conflict for many that lead to anxiety, depression, and other social disorders. Make your own decisions with your life, but know that you aren't alone if you have these internal struggles and/or feel bad about being promiscuous. It's not your fault nor is it a bad thing. In fact, it's natural and healthy to embrace.

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