Recent content by Zdietz53

I appreciate the advice. Crete looks pristine and I’d definitely be interested in the other parts too.

She was on a cruise with a friend so I’m pretty sure they just stuck to the more tourist-y beaches. I definitely want to go sometime with her. Any recommendations?

My wife was 20 - junior year of college. She had started a fling with another junior on the track team. Then when that ended, she had another brief fling with his roommate who was on the football team.

I appreciate threads like this that show some of the real life consequences that could happen but aren’t always considered in the onset. Luckily for us, we haven’t had much in “gone wrong” category. The main experience that’d belong in this thread was when my wife’s sister found out. My wife...

I’m wishing you the best of luck. Even if it’s not exactly how you pictured things playing out initially, it’s a monumental step for your wife and she knows she can ask for these curveballs because she knows you’ll support her.

Just the one guys she’s seeing now in addition to me. I hope that she does experience some more at some point but right now, she’s been super happy with what she has.

Former coworkers can definitely help if they’ve already built a comfort level

For us, it was honestly a lot of dumb luck. My wife and I did do a lot of the pre-work needed to be comfortable in our marriage but it still required countless things outside our control to go right for my wife to actually start seeing another guy. Wish I had some advice, but truly just first...

I looked at my wife’s situation as a “rising tide lifts all ships” type thing. Hope it’s the same for you.

I have to imagine this is a pretty common concern as it was one of the main ones my wife brought up when she was seriously starting to think about a more physically intimate relationship with the guy she’s currently seeing. I obviously didn’t know the answer at the time, but after a couple...

I’ve done 1, 2 and 3. 1 is honestly easiest for us just so we can keep things going with our regular lives. 4 would be interesting just to be closer to the action but probably not realistic for us at the moment.

My wife has always met with her man without me. I originally thought that I would want to watch, but pretty much immediately knew that it’d be way too intense after talking to her about her first date. Maybe it’s something I’d want to explore down the road but not really important to me at the...