For myself the first cuckolding I got looms large in the memory by its primacy, and its leading to others. I had never imagined when me and the ex got married that I would end up a cuckold. I’m not even sure I could have defined “cuckold” very accurately. But apparently she figured out fairly early in the marriage that I could be turned into a cuckold easily enough. We had moved to a new city for my ex’s job. A somewhat older couple, one of whom (I don’t remember which) worked in the same field as her. That winter the ex and the guy were in a local theater production: lots of...
My wife never got to be a hotwife. I am envious. I guess it was so easy to cheat and cuckold me; why change what works? I have posted on my having to admit the facts at:
Cheating. As others have observed the range of emotions that sweep over you when you find out your wife (or husband) has made a cuckold of you behind your back are fascinating for the complexity and power: humiliation, fear, jealousy, frustration, anger, embarrassment, and all topped off or contradicted by raging sexual arousal! From references on other threads, I suspect the individual responses and the circumstances in which those responses were made vary widely. I suggest there may be some interest in hearing about the occasion of and response to discovering and confronting the fact...