I was pretty much ready to turn it into reality. My wife had no interest, period.
I have given up on the fantasy too. It is still great to read about other guys who finally got their wives to take that last leap and found out it was great.
How unfortunate! They look like they would be fun to play with on a regular basis.
Have you told him he isn’t meeting your needs? He should be a lucky man - every night. My wife comments makes me feel dirty and perverted for wanting to play. I’ve given up.