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Sounds like things haven't turned out the way you would have liked.

Yes! I'm right where you're at too! I honestly and earnestly want some form of this happen! I've told my my wife I would like to see it happen but she's firmly in the "never gonna happen" camp. I agree with you regarding couples that have made it happen and wives willing to give it a try. They...

Thanks for your reply. I've always appreciated your honesty and your thoughtful posts. From your perspective it seems that if the idea is initiated by the wife it is a sign that the relationship is over. Why wouldn't a wife have those same feelings if a husband promoted the same idea? I...

Definitely in agreement with you! It seems utterly foolish to me that any sort of long term denial will strengthen a relationship. After enough conditioning and acceptance denial loses its potency and turns to ambivalence. Many people that have quit smoking successfully say they don't miss it...

While most people on this site would agree with you, unfortunately the rest of the world doesn't share your opinion, especially when it becomes known in public.

Do you always play with guys that are open to you sucking them? Do you have trouble finding them?

You sound honest and realistic about how you'd like for this to progress. I finally got the nerve enough to tell my wife that the "idea" of her having sex with someone else was exciting to me. I knew better than to say I actually wanted it to happen. I immediately followed up with I never...

Do you ever get to watch?

Thanks for your reply! It is nice to read a post by a wife that wants something special. Would it be enough to try BBC in a threesome without your husband having to do bisexual things? That could be a sort of "baby steps" kind of thing and maybe he would be more receptive to the idea. Does...

Is this something that interests you enough to want, or are you just excited by the thought of it? Please know I'm judging either way you choose. I'm simply curious about wives that find this exciting/interesting. Personally I'd be interested if my wife was but I'd carry some deep concerns about...

Was it your wife's idea or yours initially? I've read many times here how a reluctant wife had 180 degree turn around with their confidence. I can understand why it would be a boost to their ego. It is amazing how wives can shed all their insecurities and inadequate self perceptions, it's as if...

That makes sense really. I would imagine that new and different is good and that might be enough for some. I know this may come across as an over simplification but if you look at the whole deal as a sort of service instead of a threat to your relationship it becomes like any other service you...

You have become one of my favorite people to correspond with. At first I thought you were just another one of those crazy husbands that go way over the top with their lifestyle (admittedly you are compared to me). I always like to refer to those types as couples whose "candle burns very bright...

Damn! This guy is huge! How do you compare to him? Has your wife ever said anything about size to you?

I guess the first and most important question is what do you really want? If you choose to do nothing and let it go on, she'll continue to treat you the same. You won't see any benefit and eventually you will become resentful for having missed out on sharing the sexual high you both could be...

Thanks for your reply. I realize that you enjoy the the fetish of watching your wife and that presents a different dynamic. Setting that aside and just using your own observations do you notice that it is nearly ubiquitous that there isn't an explanation or acknowledgement of the disparity of...

Thanks for the reply. I can see that your relationship is more about being "sex positive" than it is about control or controlling. As to the "denial game", I can understand how it would "spice up" things because it's not one of those "never again" or permanent kind of things. In your game does...

If the initial idea is promoted and encouraged by the wife, is it still acceptable for her to deny her husband the possibility of having sex outside the marriage? Almost all the time you read, "I (the wife) can have sex with anyone at anytime I choose but I would be crushed if my husband had sex...