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    Thanks for everything, Lapster. You are a gem!

    Thanks for everything, Lapster. You are a gem!
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    20 ideas to get your wife to cheat

    Cool, I'll check it out! My wife is somewhat shy physically, has always been reluctant to take any steps to show the sexual side of herself (conservative dress, demure body posture, etc.) and is slowly emerging -- this might give her the confidence lift she needs!
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    Our wannabe adventure

    Oooh, this is so exciting, memories, thanks for sharing! D has become comfortable with dancing and revealing her body in sex clubs, especially where at least one or two other women are dancing. She tells me she likes dancing for me and she likes how excited she can make me. She has not gotten to...
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    Our wannabe adventure

    Yes, they truly are beautiful -- well shaped, full, beautifully placed nipples, and, what I like the best . . . they respond to the touch.
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    Our wannabe adventure

    Oh, it's all in one evening, with the "days" really unfolding in her imagination to a few hours. We haven't tried this yet, but I plan to soon -- will let you know how it goes!
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    Our wannabe adventure

    Good thinking, toolman, and at this point she is only barely willing to confess that she finds another man attractive -- social interactions, especially, e.g., flirting, are uncomfortable. She has, on occasion, especially at a sex club, been willing to engage men in conversation, and truthfully...
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    Our wannabe adventure

    Lol, perhaps . . . I do tend to obsess about these things
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    Our wannabe adventure

    So, what do you think? Is this a good idea? Do you have thoughts about the psychological and emotional approach here? Any suggestions about how to fine-tune or adapt this structure? I hope to hear your ideas!!
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    Our wannabe adventure

    This was a great time, and I could tell from D’s reaction that she was aroused as well. The next day, I asked if she had a good time, and she said, “Yes.” And “I liked seeing the look of excitement and desire in your eyes.” Over the next few days, we re-visited this experience, and the basic...
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    My wife has regrets

    My wife had regrets once when she allowed things to go farther than she was comfortable. It caused some tension between the two of us because she was not totally honest with me about how she felt. You should feel fortunate that she is being open and honest about her views and feelings. With us...
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    Our wannabe adventure

    This is long, but maybe the most exciting (for me) night of our adventure so far: We began going to sex clubs every couple of months as a way of giving her an opportunity to get to know what this lifestyle might be like, and for me to experience the thrill and arousal of showing her off and...
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    Our wannabe adventure

    Happy to write the next chapter if there is interest. She has been open and easy to talk to (once I worked up the courage), and many times she has surprised me with her willingness to try certain things (and yet still trying to ease her along to the next steps!).
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    Our wannabe adventure

    One of the hurdles from our explorations has been that D views them purely as a way of pursuing our mutual connection with each other. She so wants to please me, though, that she has been willing to play along. When we got to the club, D found that the superman cape gave her confidence and a...
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    Our wannabe adventure

    Before our next adventure we stopped at an adult shop where we purchased a lovely flowing and very revealing nightgown which came with several different ways of revealing – by unbuttoning the front, or by lowering a shoulder strap. And the long, floor-length material gave D an opportunity to...
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    Our wannabe adventure

    Yes that’s what I keep hoping. It started a dozen years ago when I could perform more often and it just didn’t matter how often she was always up for it and enjoyed it, even though she didn’t always come. It just seemed that she somehow wanted more but couldn’t find a way to tell me.
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    Our wannabe adventure

    I am so fortunate to have found her -- she is such a loving and giving person, I always feel like I am at the center of her life and motivations. She has taught me so much about what it means to love another person, and she does it from a deep-seated pleasure that she gets from helping those she...
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    Our wannabe adventure

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    Our wannabe adventure

    She is for sure -- tall, long legs, stunning, beautifully formed breasts that respond to the touch, gorgeous long hair
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    Our wannabe adventure

    This was so exciting for me, and I thought I discerned an additional spark from her lovemaking that night. I later found out that beforehand she did not feel the anticipatory excitement I had hoped for but was apprehensive (out of her devotion she sometimes cloaks her emotions). At the club, she...