we've met with couples in real life to share a meal, drinks, or just chat about vanilla and, of course, the LS. it can be quite fun given that the scope of those with whom you can share these experiences is otherwise nonexistent.
I think she enjoys something unique from each one. Girth / length of tool, rhythm, length of oral they perform on her, etc. Obviously, more is more in all aspects. One guy in particular generally leaves her starry-eyed, though ;)
similar experiences here. my wife often prefers the massage over what follows :) it's a great way to break the ice and allows her the freedom to explore if he does a great job.
She usually meets new lovers with the agreement to receive a massage. If he's really good and knows how to, she lets him know and it's fun all around. If he's mediocre, well, she wraps up the massage and leaves.
as a husband who's been through this, I agree with Cathy's advice. She's likely testing you to understand how serious you might be. Reassure her that you have no other motives other than a desire to have her pleased by someone else. Perhaps expand on the narrative that she's exploring lately...
haha! Fair enough ...
gf and I were coming back from a night on the town and a few beverages. she got frisky as we were driving back and got to work on my c-- while I was driving. I found a semi-secluded place to park that appeared fairly dark and not a lot of traffic. Not a neighborhood...
@Nas69 , I don't follow your comment. Lynn asked if someone was available to talk to her husband because he's pushing something on her. I asked whether she was opposed to the idea, perhaps to get her angle / perspective / receptiveness to the topic.