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    Any Christians here?

    This is intriguing. It begs asking, ‘if not — then what has.’
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    Any Christians here?

    Yet ironically, very many churches have members in good standing whose wives gave good standing with lovers.
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    Any advice on how to lead her

    Have you ‘asked her if she’s going to keep in touch with him when he’s done.’ That conveys consent with no scenarios involving your libidinous designs. As summer approaches, you could ask if she’d like to have him over for a BBQ. Or make it a small retirement party involving you and some of...
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    Should i encourage her?.

    Goodhubby7: THAT’s what YOU need to discover — as the guy who knows her better than anyone on earth. Guys forever approach this from THEIR [male] fantasy perspective. What you want to do is to figure out HER fantasy. There are travel guides, romantic getaway books, travel blogs, trip...
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    Should i encourage her?.

    That’s definitely smarter and moving in the right direction!
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    Should i encourage her?.

    Guys — quit the male fantasy stuff! No one on this planet knows this woman the way Goodhubby7 does. If he thinks something won’t go over well, it probably won’t go over well. Instead of ‘getting her’ or ‘making her,’ why not think of this like a seduction? Which incidentally, it is. I...
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    We've been stuck on the doorstep...

    YNB has put this together, Deezire. Begin by going to school on your wife. Her preferred novels, TV shows, etc. Do any themes or situations in drama seem to fascinate her? Do any scenarios hold her interest well — as use of blindfolds? Men shouldn’t expect their wives to share their fantasies...
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    my wife is old school

    ‘Happy wife, happy life.’ ‘If momma ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy. There’s a reason folk wisdom exists…
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    Our friend visiting

    … which made me laugh thinking … ‘Honey I get that. What I’m saying is “just the tip … just to see if it COULD fit…”’ 🤣
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    I don't know what to do

    So you know her. But do you know her fantasies? Do you know her ideal, romantic situation? Do you know her hotspots — back of her neck, ear lobes, soles of feet, ankles, calves, lower back, etc., that begin her arousal? Understand that these are not things you ask her … these are things you...
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    What should I do?

    Well … you could. Or, you could introduce some modestly larger toys, learn to use these well, and down the road [i.e., a year later] when she is responding very well consistently … you make an observation … ‘… I have to wonder … just how good would the real thing be … ]. Then you shut it for...
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    My Last Ditch Effort

    So IF she says that, were it free, she’d go at least weekly, are you going to give her an allowance? Also, are you going to be sharing her words with these friends yourself?
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    My Last Ditch Effort

    And it may be … crossed that off life’s bucket list! What’s next? Or, maybe she’s waiting to see if you are truly good either way this .. Time will tell!
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    Wife agreed to try, what are the next steps?

    Not to speak against the lifestyle, but the question to be asked is, ‘why is that necessary.’ The answer is … You don’t have consent.
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    Life as a Husband to a Professional Dominatrix

    By the gods … How did you land this woman?!?! 🚨😀
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    How to Bring up the Subject " I want to watch you FUCK other men" Any Advice

    I would invite you to share more of her history and proclivities. Sometimes, a woman's habits will suggest a course of action. Edit: Example — if your wife reads novels, consider buying works by the best female writers of women’s erotica. There are Maya Banks’ works such as ‘Feversong’ and/or...
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    Huge progress, swingers house party!

    Question of clarification: Is the DM invitation to the original poster, or to anyone generally?
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    Do some women lie about not liking big dick?

    Interesting! A few more questions [hoping you don't mind]! 1] Do well-endowed men become interested in you simply by learning of his little problem? Do they warm up to you sensing that success is near because he is so small? 2] Does your husband have a sense that his cuckolding is the natural...
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    Do some women lie about not liking big dick?

    Sweet. Has it become known in your circles that hubby is really small? If so, does that change the interactional dynamics with others with others?