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That’s the thing. The better the relationship, the less the likelihood that nothing some guy does in the saddle is going to short out the years or decades you lived your lives together. Where that happens, I pretty much read it that the relationship was a facade. What if embracing your desires...

At ‘the very very beginning stages,’ you have plenty of things to consider. Have you discussed safety issues or any boundaries? What of emotional control? If either of you start to lose it, you will …? Have you considered your relationship with the man you hope to invite into your bedroom...

I corresponded with a woman a few years back [we met online]. She wrote that the oddest sex thing had happened. Her husband took her two days after her stud. Even as her hubby was grinding away, she could still feel her lover inside her … and what happened two days earlier was her only focus.

Yowzers! Have you mentioned ’Anthony’ since the event? ‘Anthony?’ ‘Yeah … from the hotel on our trip.’ ‘Come again…?’ The guy hauled bachelorettes around in the limo … you invited him over to our table …’ ‘What made you think of him?’ ‘Beside being very nice and really charming? Beside...

That’s not an argument AGAINST toys … That’s an advertisement FOR them! 😂

Interesting you put these side by side. The timeframe in which you may soon consider having kids comes when she has recently declared interest in trying a really heavy penis. Do you think these are unrelated? Are you sure? I wouldn’t put it to her yet; but do ask yourself: how do YOU feel...

Nice, clean fun!

happyhubbymi, I wouldn’t go there. Those words change the focus from HER internal life to YOURS. This becomes what you want and your fantasy. My proposed strategy limits my concern to her safety and happiness. Nothing beyond those two points! Without saying it, this communicates to her that...

LOL 🤣 I TOTALLY know that isn’t what you meant; but one suspects LOADS of wives would agree. It was just too good to let pass! Seriously, though, erotic hypnosis is a personal favourite, though still [sadly] very much a niche interest. Given the role of imagination in hypnosis, the potential...

‘I love you with all my heart, and I will always support you in whatever you decide. So long as you are safe and happily enjoying yourself, I’m good with whatever you want …’

Number based in the Republic of Maldives. Just be aware …

I’m glad it went well and worked out! Take care and keep safe! 👏

I suggest that you make the initial post and lead the vetting. Make it clear that you require someone who will invest time and work, invest in both of you, and get to know you as a couple, and both of you individually. Beside the fakers [you’ve been meeting], are loads of guys who just want to...

Prostate massage, gentlemen. Consider it.

How much better is this, when you and your husband are on the same page — and the dynamics between your cuckold husband and his longtime friend, your bull, are also right! This is what distinguishes the practiced lifestyle from the fantasists who try to elicit reactions for their own … reasons.

I get this. But actually, my mention of ‘introduction’ wasn’t focused on w/w. I was wondering if you [plural — either of you] had ever supported and/or otherwise encouraged another couple to explore — take questions, walk them through issues, etc. Of course the same answer may apply. But it...

Powerful and beautiful! Can see why the guy early on didn’t want to quit. What red-blooded man in his right mind would want to quit THAT butt?!?! On another [if somewhat related idea], have [either of] you ever been involved in introducing others [especially women] to this?

Where human sexuality is concerned, I expect answers to be all over the board.

So this has been silent for nearly a month. The trip is well behind you. Consider taking her out to a pub for supper and/or drinks. But here’s the thing … You enter separately. She good into the main area. You stay in the vehicle for five minutes or so, or until she sends you a text. Or, you...

You know better than anyone what may open or close conversation. Here is a possible approach. Use it or not. As I say — you know her best. As a strategy, you want to invite her into a conversation about growing your experiences together. So you raise the matter of exploring this, and she...