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Yoda66: I’d encourage you to keep reflecting on things and to keep posting new material as events unfold. The more data is available, and the more of us that are reviewing it, the greater the likelihood that someone is will recognize patterns of behaviors that may illuminate your wife’s ways...

Great to hear, jef114! Do your homework. Be sure to check out the link I posted later! You must be registered for see element. You should study that until her thoughts become indistinguishable from your own. Then put together more resources. Esther Perel [mentioned in Ms. Welch’ article] is a...

I want to add another URL to those above: You must be registered for see element. This cuckoldress maintains a blog on the subject. The linked article ought to be required reading for every husband who desires more for his wife. It includes a reading list [David Ley’s above mentioned work is...

My take is this: Loads of guys everywhere share your interests, and many of them have as much ideas about how to proceed. In the vast majority of cases, it goes off as well as your experience. This is a huge matter. It affects everything in your relationship. Even in best case scenarios, the...

Yeah. My best guess is that at least one of them is a hermaphrodite.

To give credit where credit is due, this was really deth’s insight [translated with the google translation app]. This past month, I’ve begun seeing that the ‘lifestyle’ is moving toward critical mass. As cuckoldry increasingly mainstreams, I want its more intelligent and thoughtful strains to...

‘It may be useful to make her reveal one of her secrets to you, for example, to tell you the name of one of your acquaintances that impresses her. Then mention his name in your intimate moments…’ Interesting! Over time, more may be learned— as what things ABOUT him she finds impressive...

Could you do some social media/internet work to learn about the local lesbian community? If you find an approachable leader in that community and have HER do the groundwork as to what woman/women might be good for and interested in acting as a team in such a project — that might make a world of...

Africanwife4old: Maybe I’m wrong, but it seems to me that the obvious is being overlooked. In your place, I’d share this interest with several lesbians and/or bisexual women. My guess is that as a woman, your wife will want SOME kind of attachment / relationship before getting involved with...

Very erotic! Few things do it for me like a demonstration of legendary feminine stamina-sexuality! This combines the best of what both genders bring, without male orgasmic limitations. To see THAT — a very large organ, never going soft, pounding VERY hard for a very long time — to see THAT...

This is an engaging question and you have framed it with some care. How much of the stimulation of sex with others is spurred by a psychological excitement of the process and activity rather than by the sheer sex? Arguably, the ‘how much’ locates the response on a spectrum between two poles...

Yep! Think of toys as trainers. In time, she may really like them. Then after a year, she may be open to trying the real thing. Meanwhile -- if you poke her cervix and make it uncomfortable ... that's why she needs a real dick. Toys have no nerve endings and therefore feel nothing. A guy with a...

Thank-you for this, Indiantelugu. Your honest answer speaks well of you. A good bond of friendship developed over time with patience and care over time brings with it the emotional response which women often need. At the same time, this emotional connection -- which will much enhance her sexual...

I respectfully suggest that you address why you are not having sex. Is she good with this? If so, you are looking at a real possibility that she is asexual. This is not to say that she cannot 'have' sex; but it means that even if arousal and climax IS possible for her, it's likely that she...

I'd suggest some general reading. I tend to agree with the suggestion that she's 'feeling the water' before proceeding. In the event that she wants to question you more thoroughly, it wouldn't hurt if you could show that you've actually thought through some issues. Possible sources? You must...

This is very nice. Were I your hubby's buddy, I would pass off this photo to him saying that it was MY wife after being with another man. I'd explain that while I found it unsettling, what truly surprised me was that I responded so powerfully to seeing it and knowing what it meant. I'd ask him...

As I see it, that is what sex is SUPPOSED to be.

Agreed. But then, I'm by no means 100% certain that this is on the up and up ... for reasons I outline on my first post on this thread.

I read such posts through dual lens: 1} the credibility of the explanations and 2] the preponderance of happenstance. A I do so, I ask myself, ‘how much happenstance is allowable before the credibility of explanation becomes a] strained, b] torturous or c] outright collapses. You’re twelve...

Another thought, Snoopsissy. Have you thought about buying your wife a half or quarter bra? Then don’t forget nipple bands? The effect of both together can be quite remarkable.