Hi Jennifer here. I think there is a large number of couples who try it at least once. Then I am pretty confident there are other couples who play regularly a few times per year and the make sure to cover their tracks carefully.
Hi Jennifer and Sean here. Look for clubs and meet ups for your hobbies and activities. It gives you common ground to meet and talk to potential playmates. You can then steer those conversations and meets to a more intimate level.
My next door neighbor Neil, was into photography and took this (and many others) of her spreading and playing with herself. Midway through the shoot he came in his pants...