Sounds like they all want it to be a given and easy. Mine will definitely not be either and must be a total secret. You seem well equipped why did you want to bring in another? How old are you?
I would love to give it a try. The guys part is simple, just to attempt to seduce her. The only rules are he never says anything about me knowing, doesn't use forse or ...... and provides me details, pictures and or videos.