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I was doing some "learning" today and am going to try something different. I am not going to give my wife the sleeve unless she asks for it. I think the build up and the desire will enhance the actual activity. Any thoughts?

Correct response? I didn’t intentionally insult or degrade anyone and many people gave it a thumbs up. Stop telling me how I am supposed to respond, this isn’t communist China. “It’s a bit odd” - it’s a bit odd someone says they are something that they clearly aren’t by every measurable...

Not saying the activity is odd at all. Go forth and enjoy life. It’s odd that they want to define their husband as straight when he is partaking in activities that are clearly bisexual. The terms are not boxes but descriptions of characteristics that help us communicate, learn and understand...

This morning started out nicely. I started massaging my wife (which I think is key to getting a lot of women in the mood) and eventually started massaging her lips. When she is laying on her stomach still, I take my oiled hands and run my threes middle fingers from the her clit up through her...

If I take a specialized small subset of women who are sexually practice, more free and proud, you think they might look past it…how does that make it any better? You’re further proving my point.

That is a compromise and depending on the relationship it is a negotiation point like anything else.

You’re right, you’re not gay, you’re bisexual.

I believe in freedom…Everyone is entitled to live their life. Having said that, this sounds absolutely terrible. It could be the way you wrote it and maybe you didn’t mean it but this sounds extremely toxic and dysfunctional. I am so sorry you had to experience this over so many decades.

A few individuals might feel that but in general very few people think of a woman being called a slut or whore as a badge of honor. If I lined up 100 random women aged 25-45 and asked how many felt being called a slut and/or whore is a good thing, how many would say yes…I bet less than 5%.

Thanks for the sentiment. It’s interesting hearing some people experiencing the same. We had a great conversation and when we had sex, she was soaking wet. She was slightly embarrassed and said I think talking about it got me in the mood. That was just talking about sex in our relationship and...

Wife and I were away for a weekend. We actually had a great conversation and she said that even though she had slept with many men, it wasn’t like she felt comfortable or knew what she was doing so as I asked for things, she said she felt like a prude. Instead of us talking thru it, she put...

Like the story but absolutely hate that you need to call her a slut. If a guy went to a cabin with five girls and banged them all, he would be the man. A fuckin hero….why on earth we treat women different is a fuckin shame bc that shame that you pour on them by calling lthem sluts and whores is...

That’s it, you have to understand that you need to have a solid durable relationship that is great but isn’t everything bc you just can’t be. If you feel that the wife needs something fun every now again, well heck see if that works. Am I getting my wife a Camry that is just better all...

As someone who has a vasectomy, how do you even proove that? Do you give them a medical record? I can actually see the small scar from the incision but it’s tiny.

No, that’s good stuff. It’s a challenging reality. There is a teacher saying, “aim high and even if you miss you’ll land among the stars.”

I like your perspective but statistically it’s not correct. There are plenty of people who work incredibly hard at something yet never achieve it because of physical or mental capacity reasons. Easy example is if everyone in the world trained harder than Usain Bolt, how many do you think could...

As someone who found out in middle age that my father was not my biological father, it is extremely problematic. Just my two cents but just going and saying hey we’ll raise this kid is not as easy as you think.

And like everything else in the world, some women would agree while others would not. There is a lot of variability in how “people” react to different things. Do we have trends where statistically it seems like more people prefer one thing over another, absolutely and that’s were we get some...

What is the Sarah method?

Thanks, we def don’t fall into the pregnancy risk is hot category. My wife def finds it hot but I wouldn’t say it’s a big turn on or critical, that could change. She has told me before she can’t really “feel” me cum inside her but she feels when I twitch as I cum. She said it’s more prevalent...