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No, I never found out what the hell solutions are on this site.

Yes, I most definitely am turned on by finding women that look like my wife. My wife is a BBW and the instant I see those skinny porn star looking young things I scroll on! Those girls are sometimes just TOO perfect!

I think that was going to happen anyway!

Looking back, I realize there were some forces at work that I didn't anticipate the issues. I ran into a "perfect storm", a three headed monster, a very conservative Christian upbringing, post-partum depression, and menopause. They came in waves, one after the other. I wish I had been more aware...

Thanks, sincerely! We have discussed our differences and to her credit she has made an effort to be more engaged. She saw I was shutting down and I didn't have that joy of life, spring in my step any more. One night we were going to have obligatory routine sex (which is how she made me feel)...

Thanks for your reply! My wife does not masturbate. She does play with her clit when we are having sex. She told me that she just doesn't need sex as I apparently do. Hearing her say that was a disappointment to me on so many levels. I felt inadequate to inspire her. I felt like she could...

Yes, please tell us more! I think Iahotwifeshusband will appreciate your insights.

She doesn't sound like she cares about you. She doesn't want to go to counseling. She doesn't want to do anything but hide her true feelings from you. She's clearly communicating with someone she wants to hide from you. She calls you "disgusting". She places blame on you for not asking for sex...

I'll bet you had fun and been frustrated at the same time trying to guess at what your wife has in store for you.

If she's concerned that you haven't had you haven't had as many experiences as she has, has she said anything about being worried that you'd cheat? It's clear she knows you want more experiences. That information had to have come from previous discussions. Do you get the feeling she's...

If she's continuing to see her lover/bf/fwb while she is fully aware of your feeling left out, then how can she really be enjoying herself? You'd think (or at least I'd think) she would be going out of her way to find a solution. I just don't understand the double standard. The stuff you want...

Has your wife healed up from her injury? Did she ever make good on the surprise she said she had for you when she was fully recovered?

Even though I'm not a cuck I understand losing your confidence. Years of vanilla sex and having a wife that just isn't into sex has destroyed my confidence. Ultimately, I was unable to get hard for her and it crushed me because all I've ever wanted was a satisfying sex life. It took my breaking...

This good and realistic advice!

Was it a repeated experience? We're you married?

I'll ask again. Really, no discussion at all? I'll bet you have a million questions tumbling around in your head. Do you think it was a "one off" situation? Do you think alcohol is the only reason this happened?

Bet she loved it. I'll bet she wanted it! I'm sure she felt like she was having a "dream" come true!

No worries on the long post! The part in green is what I think is awesome because I asked my wife to start talking dirty while we are having sex. She was very reluctant but did it for me. She was really awkward at first but she has become really skilled at it now. She has come up with some stuff...

Given what you have said, I'd say you have a lot of blessings to be thankful for. My wife and I have been married 47 years and she came from an extremely conservative religious household. If your wife accepts your bisexual activity and is turned on by it, that alone is huge leap for a...

It's just my opinion and nothing more, but since she said, "you would like it in the moment then regret it", I'd start there. She knows the idea excites you "in the moment". She's not sure how you would feel afterwards. She sees the potential for it turn in a bad way for you both. I'm sure her...