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  1. coastalkid

    UPDATE: First solo dates

    I'm pretty sure Anonymousrob HAS been a "good boy", maybe not in the same way as robbiewilsucku. Everybody has their own way of doing things. If being a "good boy" is fun then hell yeah! If being a "good boy" isn't fun then why be good?
  2. coastalkid

    I have this new perspective

    Please, do continue.
  3. coastalkid

    UPDATE: First solo dates

    Because some people will suggest that NO MATTER what YOU feel you should just take it and accept it. Some people get their thrill from being jealous and insecure. It seems common that people believe that their attitude fits everyone's situation. In truth what works for them and what drives them...
  4. coastalkid

    My wife's been dreaming about black men.

    The whole "I had a dream" scenario does seem like a way to approach a discussion/declaration of some kind. It seems like a way to "blame" the thoughts as being involuntary and avoid the perception that her daytime thoughts aren't the issue. If it were me, I'd tell her that you really enjoyed...
  5. coastalkid

    Found porn on wife’s phone?

    I suppose the finding of the porn could mean a lot of different things. I would also suggest that it doesn't necessarily mean that she's unsatisfied. I wouldn't assume anything until you get a chance to ask her about it. What is more concerning to me is that she was "hyper sexual" before being...
  6. coastalkid

    How to get super reluctant wife into this?

    I can personally attest to the great difficulty in being married to a wife raised in an ultra conservative Christian household. It has taken decades to put a small dent in that wall. My wife knows I crave sex but after years of her being ambivalent towards sex caused me to shut down. She's...
  7. coastalkid

    Girlfriend >Wife > Girlfriend to another man> Vixen> Hotwife > ?

    Thanks for the update. I have a better understanding of what "unfinished business" meant now. Your question regarding about the ongoing nature of this new development is telling. Since she's taking the initiative and "ownership" does it feel like there is little less communication that leaves...
  8. coastalkid

    Girlfriend >Wife > Girlfriend to another man> Vixen> Hotwife > ?

    It's good to hear that you feel closer relationship wise. That's important! It is also important that your communication is not inhibited by any type of fear or worry. I get that this step of her taking the initiative is a desired thing. It shows that it's not just you wanting this. I proves a...
  9. coastalkid

    She just got shared

    I'm sorry that some people have chosen to be hateful in their response. I can understand why that would make you reluctant to share more. I woiuld say just ignore them but I know it's just not that simple. Ultimately the important part is that you are enjoying your part of the experience.
  10. coastalkid

    Girlfriend >Wife > Girlfriend to another man> Vixen> Hotwife > ?

    I'll have to say that the tone of your post is pretty blurry. Even with you checking in with "him" it doesn't sound like he's in the loop either. I think you've been wise to "let her process things" on her own but it leaves you in an very unaware position. The fact that you had assumed something...
  11. coastalkid

    I Can Help You Convince Her!

    Are there any "telltale" signs you recognize for successfully "helping" couples?
  12. coastalkid

    I Can Help You Convince Her!

    How many have you helped? Have you had any failures?
  13. coastalkid

    advice on how things are going

    Do you have any plans for your trip to Tampa? Have you done any research on places to take her where there might be a "target rich environment"?
  14. coastalkid

    Girlfriend >Wife > Girlfriend to another man> Vixen> Hotwife > ?

    I can hear it now. This where all the "cheerleaders" will jump on board. There's going to be cacophony of statements like, "You have to let her have her freedom!", or "You just need to let her take the lead!", or "It's not her fault that she didn't tell you everything!". Who knows maybe she was...
  15. coastalkid

    Girlfriend >Wife > Girlfriend to another man> Vixen> Hotwife > ?

    Sounds like your out of the loop a little.
  16. coastalkid

    She's nearly there...how to get her to go the distance

    This has to be an exciting stage. I honestly hope you talk with her more about the jealousy. So many people post here about how important a hot wife's first experience is. The other side of this is that not many post about how important a husband's first experience is. This will be as new to you...
  17. coastalkid

    I have this new perspective

    From your update it seems they had/have every intention of playing "with" you and not "playing you" as I earlier asserted. I'm interested to find out how the dice game went and how things ended up.
  18. coastalkid

    Sex club

    Any updates? I especially want to know if you figured out her PIN on her phone? Does she guard her phone, as in not leaving it where you can see it? Do you suspect that the pregnancy test was only about the sex that JUST you two have had?