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I can only offer you my reactions to your post. My very first reaction was to the "emasculating" talk. How far you go with your kink will depend so much on how committed you are to each other. You may desire the emasculation, you may even get a thrill from it. Over time you won't need any verbal...

Well, it's a work in progress and you have a good foundation of being able to discuss things. I have faith that you'll come out happy in the long run.

#6 seems like it could be difficult especially when added to the vagueness of #7. Overall, it has to feel good to have a greater understanding of where you both find yourself on your journey.

Is there anything that stands out that you didn't know before that has come from your discussions?

Any updates?

Lately I've been thinking, "You can. have you cake and eat it too if everyone gets a piece of the pie!" Yeah, it would destroy me if, after wanting it for years, my wife turned inconsiderate and selfish. I'd blow up..........eventually!

That has to be THE most dreaded issue, her having feelings for her lover, enough so to cause uncertainty. I imagine you head floods with thoughts and all sorts of wrong conclusions and wild scenarios. This where I've observed here that it takes a very smart and sensitive wife to not lose her...

Everybody seems to have their own way of doing things. You should too! I get that robbiewillsucku is into the deep end of the pool, but not everybody has to be there to have fun.

What changed your mind about cleaning up? Had you and your wife ever discussed it before?

Just out of curiosity, do you feel different about yourself now? Is it everything you hoped it would be? Any regrets at all?

Inevitably the bf situation will come to a point where the emotional connection needs to be revisited and that the expectations that were initially established have not changed. It is to your credit that that you have been able to reach this point in your hotwife journey. You've avoided any...

I am getting a bit of a laugh regarding the abstaining advice, not the idea itself but rather from the source. I'm not arguing with the premise. I can see how it would help with focusing. I'm just wondering when the last time your wife's friend ever went a month without sex for any reason? If...

Wow! At the very beginning of following you I thought you were crazy. Later on as I've been following you convinced me that you were not. Now all this talk about roles, ground rules, consent, limits, feelings and communication has me viewing you in whole new light altogether. It's been an...

What prompted the "abstaining from sex" during March? Is it just you abstaining or both of you?

I totally understand! I love to masturbate too and 99.9% of the time alone as well!

Thanks for your kind words! I try to be realistic.

Wow, really, no discussion at all? I'll bet you have a million questions tumbling around in your head. Do you think it was a "one off" situation? Do you think alcohol is the only reason this happened?

So, how did it all fall out in your wife's mind? Was last week's disappointment a minor thing or was it a sign to her to move on?

Somedays I feel like I'm held hostage sexually with my wife. You often hear the phrase, "Men have a one track mind." My wife has one track mind too, but it's not always on sex. It's on whatever she's doing at the moment. I've learned to know better than to interrupt her unless the house is on...

I noticed in some users profiles they have "Solutions" listed with Messages, Reaction score, and points. What are solutions?