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I really love the nipple piercing idea! I think it's sexy personally. It makes me think of when I was a middle school classroom teacher. I often had parents (moms) that would volunteer to help with grading papers and other prep work. One mom came in to help me grade papers. We sat side by side...

You're a lucky man, in so many respects! It sounds like you learned some tough lessons and to your credit you're still together. Ultimately if everybody's verifiably happy is the most important thing.

That sounds awesome! It must be nice to shed away all the detractors and focus on giving each other an amazing experience. Seems to me if the focus is on assuring and verifying everyone has a good experience no one can feel slighted. I'm curious to know since you don't put demands or rules on...

I would think that you really need another serious "sit down" with your wife. Since your wife was the one to approach you you should be able to do that easily. My wife isn't a hot wife but she knows I have the kink like you do. When I think about the potential of it becoming a reality I'm...

I'd like to know more about how your transparency works.

I still think they're workin' you. I mean yeah, it seems like you have a shot, but life is sometimes overly generous to a fortunate few and then there's the rest of us that felt like we were (showing of fingers measuring) that close! Here's to hoping you ended up being one of the fortunate few!

Maybe you surprise her by tying her up and telling her she shouldn't complain ( I realize she was disappointed and not complaining. I'm just saying that for effect). Then give her a good working over. That'll take her mind off the disappointment.

Reality, it's a bitch sometimes!

Surely the angst isn't as powerful/potent as it was 10 years ago. I'm not implying that you are not feeling angst, but you have been together for 10 years that at least says you don't have the fear of losing her. Ten years is a long time to be successfully in the lifestyle. You're obviously...

I don't think women really understand what a man goes through when he feels like his window of opportunity is closing. I know many women do become very obsessed with their appearance and their age and they feel too old for the competition. They still have the pussy and there's plenty of men that...

sure!

Like a baseball game getting rained out! Sometimes the gods conspire against you.

It was far from boring! I'm sure you have more to tell. Don't hesitate!

Well you didn't regret that YOU had experience from before this boyfriend. You wished he (the bf) had not been so inexperienced. More than anything you were young then, you may have had sexual experience but relationship experience is a different thing. Since it was complicated from the start as...

I want to make clear that I'm NOT judging you criticizing you. I tend to focus on how people do this lifestyle successfully. A lot of details are swept aside because the actual events are much more appealing to read. There are a lot of implications, attitudes and emotions that do not include...

Hey man, thanks for your sincere reply! It sounds like you have enough communication to be upfront with everything. You knew what you were getting in to. If your wife was mean about it then that says something else. The fact that she's not at a minimum says she cares. It's my guess/feel that no...

Wow! Fun times at your place!

You're obviously not done yet!

Thanks for your candid response. I knew you were carrying some heavy emotional burdens. It would take someone with a heart of stone not to! I guess the most important thing is are you happy? I think you've more than earned the opportunity to tell your wife exactly what you need from her and how...

You've got a lot on your plate. You're infertile, your wife had a baby by another man, your wife has "feelings" for someone and you feel inadequate. Some people here could call your situation ideal, while others would call it a nightmare. I think you need to focus on yourself some. You've had to...