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You (the husband) said that the "unplanned roleplay" isn't really your thing but went along with it for your reasons. I get that you had figured it would fun to see and it would be nice for your wife to enjoy it. Clearly this guy pushed the submissive scenario if he asked you to beg. It makes me...

No one wants to talk about the burden a husband/bf carries when they witness their inadequacy proven by someone capable of producing reactions and responses from their wife that they have not EVER been able to produce. By allowing another person to fulfill those needs, a husband can deflect...

I completely understand if you have a true physical disability or condition that precludes you from providing the sexual satisfaction that you can't give her. In cases like yours, it has to be extremely disheartening to YOU that YOU can't provide that for her. I have serious doubts that if you...

Damn! She's going to get a lot of attention at the club!

Yes, this IS the thing, to have great sex! For those of us that have been married a long time (46 yrs here) in a monogamous lifestyle it is so easy to lose interest when the sex becomes too routine, as in a routine of infrequency, routine times/days, and routine patterns. I've learned that...

I still wonder about this?

Ultimately that's how it is. There needs to be enough that you're happy with things. If you're getting pics and video and that's what you wanted then it's all good. A smart wife knows she has to keep things interesting. She knows if she ignores her husband it won't last. That's why I've always...

That's really good to hear. Can anyone that truly loves their partner claim to have had the best experience ever if their partner doesn't share that same excitement and enthusiasm? The sex is just a part of the bigger goal of being happy and content. It makes me think of the quote by actor John...

Wow! You guys have been in the lifestyle for a while now right? It must have been some hard discussions if there were tears involved. At least you acknowledge that things have been "pretty one-sided" of late. I can only guess that he must feel little left out. Did you come up with any...

How long have you been a "mostly bottom"? Do you get a lot of action compared to your wife? Have you ever had a friendly competition as to who had more action?

I meant as in actual "......" in the same bed. Do you have a regular partner? Do you have a preference as to what your role is?

So, do you crave men now or have you lost your desire for sex altogether? Does your wife still set you up with dates? Do you still ...... with your wife?

Wish you'd revisit this thread!

You've only posted twice and it's been a while. Some of the responses have been blunt. Hopefully you've had a chance to gather yourself. I'm sure you learned things from your first marriage that you have said you don't want to repeat in the second marriage. You crave that "spicy-ness" and I...

Does the "brother and sister" relationship work for you? Because if you're happy do what you do and she's happy doing what she does then it sounds good. Are you sure you've given up on women altogether?

Your first post on this thread was back in 2021. You've stated that your wife is much happier since you've accepted her dating. Are you happier too? In the past three years what have you learned about yourself and your relationship in that time?

Sounds like things haven't turned out the way you would have liked.

Yes! I'm right where you're at too! I honestly and earnestly want some form of this happen! I've told my my wife I would like to see it happen but she's firmly in the "never gonna happen" camp. I agree with you regarding couples that have made it happen and wives willing to give it a try. They...

Thanks for your reply. I've always appreciated your honesty and your thoughtful posts. From your perspective it seems that if the idea is initiated by the wife it is a sign that the relationship is over. Why wouldn't a wife have those same feelings if a husband promoted the same idea? I...

Definitely in agreement with you! It seems utterly foolish to me that any sort of long term denial will strengthen a relationship. After enough conditioning and acceptance denial loses its potency and turns to ambivalence. Many people that have quit smoking successfully say they don't miss it...