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I loved this post! Far too often words and actions are disregarded. Just like when people say, "It's just sex!", but it gives the impression it's something more. Words and actions will always conjure up reactions and responses differently in different people. I learned this from being a...

I agree with you. There's a lot of ground work that has been done to get to this point. If that counts for nothing then it was a sham, a shell of of what you thought it was. The draw is exactly the thing. Will it result in better and more fulfilling sex life for the both of us? Would the risk...

I have to ask you now that it's been a year for you, what else has changed for you besides being more "fluid" and "natural"? How is your (for lack of a better word) anxiety level now? Is it all but gone now? Is there any sort of "new routine" that has been established? Has any of the "newness"...

Feeling inadequate is one of my fears for certain! I realize there will always be bigger, better men out there and truthfully what good would it be if her experience was something less than her typical experience with you? However witnessing it, hearing it or being told about it is whole...

Any updates?

Well, she at least does it some. I'd take that. Of course I know I''d want more but you take what you can get right? How rare is rarely?

I love that! You made me remember the most wet my wife ever got (and I haven't been able to reproduce it) was a time we were driving through some mountains and I amazingly convinced her to pull over and step off into the woods for a quickie. We were enough out of the way to not be seen but we...

I understand about being discreet. It's not like I go to the bar and tell my buddies I like masturbating or that I just did. I also haven't had any female, friend or not tell me they masturbate. I realize it's not a topic for casual conversation. That's why I figure a place like this is probably...

Does she at all now? Would she do it to tease you?

I wish my wife liked dildos. Her one and only toy is her old school plug in Hitachi Magic Wand. She never masturbates with it on her own. She only uses it when we're together. I kind of wish she would feel the need to use it on her own. Sometimes she'll have 10 or 15 orgasms when we use it. She...

She may very well NOT be cheating. If she isn't cheating then there is something else going on with her. It could be something that doesn't amount to anything or it could be something worse than cheating, as in she's tired of his ....... The holiday season always brings along an extra set of...

I get it if you feel like you are to blame partially. Sure you opened the door but ONLY the hot wife door. You were honest about your intentions. It seems like she was the one that didn't have any self control. She became preoccupied. She neglected other responsibilities. She couldn't follow...

Seems like a tough spot to be in. It seems pretty bold of her to say, "She knows all the ways NOT to be found out." I wonder what she thought when she said that? Did she think that providing that tidbit would make you stop being curious? What prompted you to "believe" she had cheated in previous...

Thank you! This makes total sense to me. When you first start ANY new activities of ANY kind you are in unfamiliar territory. It is always wise to anticipate and prepare for potential problems whether they are real or imagined. I would guess that once the husband and wife are committed to...

First off thanks for the kind compliment, although I believe I'm far from the "model husband". As to the domestic duties, that's not so simple. From the very beginning we've had an equitable division of labor. We've covered for each other when one becomes ill or injured (its happened). I get...

I'd love to read a report from your trip to Florida.

You're wise to bring attention to this now. I promise you that you'll be glad you did even if it's awkward or difficult. I mentioned the "date" idea because I know we let that slip and we tended to take each other for granted. Going out and having fun together made all the other discussions...

Well said! I just can't get my head around the idea that a wife can really have the best time of her life if her husband isn't also. It feels impossible to me that a wife that truly loves her husband could be so out of touch with their husband to be unaware of the possible outcomes. Worse...