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You need to talk to her now and get it off your chest, and I do mean your chest because this sounds like an anvil on your heart.

What was your personal revelation? I understand if it's too personal to share.

I don't doubt the hurt you're feeling! I'll bet you're ready to just blow up! When you say "the end for us" do you mean for the lifestyle or do you mean for the two of you?

Regarding your "new arrangement" phase. It's great that your are excited about it. I'm sure that helps your wife. So, what is the plan? Is the "bull" from your hotwife friend a transitionary player in your scheme? If he is, have you talked about how long you'll need him? Is there a goal to...

Regarding your "awkward situation" post, I'm curious to know how much discussion you had with her about your rules and limits? Did she give you her opinions about those? I have a sneaking suspicion that she was curious about what you got out of the situation and if you had any issues with...

No, I never found out what the hell solutions are on this site.

Yes, I most definitely am turned on by finding women that look like my wife. My wife is a BBW and the instant I see those skinny porn star looking young things I scroll on! Those girls are sometimes just TOO perfect!

I think that was going to happen anyway!

Looking back, I realize there were some forces at work that I didn't anticipate the issues. I ran into a "perfect storm", a three headed monster, a very conservative Christian upbringing, post-partum depression, and menopause. They came in waves, one after the other. I wish I had been more aware...

Thanks, sincerely! We have discussed our differences and to her credit she has made an effort to be more engaged. She saw I was shutting down and I didn't have that joy of life, spring in my step any more. One night we were going to have obligatory routine sex (which is how she made me feel)...

Thanks for your reply! My wife does not masturbate. She does play with her clit when we are having sex. She told me that she just doesn't need sex as I apparently do. Hearing her say that was a disappointment to me on so many levels. I felt inadequate to inspire her. I felt like she could...

Yes, please tell us more! I think Iahotwifeshusband will appreciate your insights.

She doesn't sound like she cares about you. She doesn't want to go to counseling. She doesn't want to do anything but hide her true feelings from you. She's clearly communicating with someone she wants to hide from you. She calls you "disgusting". She places blame on you for not asking for sex...

I'll bet you had fun and been frustrated at the same time trying to guess at what your wife has in store for you.

If she's concerned that you haven't had you haven't had as many experiences as she has, has she said anything about being worried that you'd cheat? It's clear she knows you want more experiences. That information had to have come from previous discussions. Do you get the feeling she's...

If she's continuing to see her lover/bf/fwb while she is fully aware of your feeling left out, then how can she really be enjoying herself? You'd think (or at least I'd think) she would be going out of her way to find a solution. I just don't understand the double standard. The stuff you want...

Has your wife healed up from her injury? Did she ever make good on the surprise she said she had for you when she was fully recovered?

Even though I'm not a cuck I understand losing your confidence. Years of vanilla sex and having a wife that just isn't into sex has destroyed my confidence. Ultimately, I was unable to get hard for her and it crushed me because all I've ever wanted was a satisfying sex life. It took my breaking...

This good and realistic advice!

Was it a repeated experience? We're you married?