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Hey man, thanks for your sincere reply! It sounds like you have enough communication to be upfront with everything. You knew what you were getting in to. If your wife was mean about it then that says something else. The fact that she's not at a minimum says she cares. It's my guess/feel that no...

Wow! Fun times at your place!

You're obviously not done yet!

Thanks for your candid response. I knew you were carrying some heavy emotional burdens. It would take someone with a heart of stone not to! I guess the most important thing is are you happy? I think you've more than earned the opportunity to tell your wife exactly what you need from her and how...

You've got a lot on your plate. You're infertile, your wife had a baby by another man, your wife has "feelings" for someone and you feel inadequate. Some people here could call your situation ideal, while others would call it a nightmare. I think you need to focus on yourself some. You've had to...

My wife and I are in the same place as you and your wife I believe. So, like you, I'm no expert either. I get the idea for having "rules". Entering this lifestyle is uncharted territory, you have no experience to draw upon and everything is an unknown. There's no way of knowing how everyone will...

That has to be the best, to catch at it! I'll bet she has intended to be "caught" probably a time or two!

Is this your gf/wife? I've seriously considered getting my wife a toy like that one. It's a clitoral thing that puffs or suck air on the clit, right?

This is a key development in your "gauging" your relationship. You've picked up on when to be proactive. It's extremely positive that she was firm about "no one on one" and everybody plays together. Things certainly feel different this time around. I can understand why you feel safe/confident...

It has to be fun to tease your hubby like that! Is your husband a cuck?

He has to have a sense of the awkwardness of the situation. Surely he hasn't forgotten how things went down. Have you and your wife talked in any more detail about it? I would think that your wife would be the one to be more reluctant to bring it up because of the past experience for you. I get...

Any updates or further discussions?

Do you still have access to her phone? Is she willing to let you check her phone after your discovery. I realize she can find other discreet ways to communicate if she really wants to. After confronting her with texts did you ask about why she said she was "afraid" of him? This is the easiest...

Wow! It definitely feels like you're being played with.

True! What's even funnier is the way we tease in bed. Anytime we get together after being apart she always says something like, "I had fun with some guys at the bar in SF (or wherever she's been)!" I wouldn't know the difference between her teasing and the truth now. Seriously, she could be...

It sure helps me understand why you enjoy watching your wife! She is truly beautiful!

Earlier in the thread dirtylauren said he saw texts on her phone and then later in. the thread he said, "Her phone is now pin locked when it’s never been before". It makes it sound like she's doing this without his knowledge.

Any more about her putting a PIN on her phone?

That's funny, "even the circus has some guidelines"! It makes sense! If your intent is to "augment" your sex life, some guidelines at least give you both an idea of potential difficulties to be aware of. That in turn means you've had a discussion at a non-sexual time to honestly address things...

Looks more like she's treating herself!