I agree, yes indeed. Moreover, good couples are also hard to find. I've had a few, and they lasted. But like everything else all good things end. Mostly due to job transfers and other factors outside the relationship.
Lol... Well there has been a push to feminize & wussyfie young boys and men. Dating back to the 70's.
I believe it first started post the sexual revolution of the 1960's. We are now seeing the fruits of that endeavor.
The often misquoted "All sex is ......" and wrongly attributed to the...
I think it is a generational thing with younger guys. They just can not... or will not commit. Or have other issues with nsa sex... and being poly amorous.