My whole life I've watched Alpha Males afforded liberties with women (including my wife) that I could never get away with. I have seen Alpha Males elicit a playful giggle from women for doing things that would have got me slapped and scolded.
That's why you can't fake being an Alpha Bull...
Our beginnings were similar. You were 29, i was 32. I know a lot of ppl got into this later in life, but i think that would be hard. Getting into this young was easy and felt natural due mainly to our open minds and raging libidos.
Viagra changed my life too. I was always a 2-pump chump but with Viagra I can fuck for 20 minutes straight and actually deliver orgasms. This has been a critical factor in staying in the Lifestyle past 50.
Same. We play with a small, regular set of couples where we swap partners. It's great when the chemistry works, but mfmf chemistry is definitely trickier than mfm chemistry.