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Same for us.

It is a very fun and exciting journey, I hope you guys find someone you enjoy very soon.

We have kept little things to remind us of our encounters also.

It’s a lot of fun when it all comes together, but finding the right guy is exhausting! So many fakes and flakes and guys who have watched to much porn and forget they are talking to a real actual woman who doesn’t need bigger and better, just be decent, fun, respectful, and actually carry on a...

What surprising things have you learned since being in this lifestyle? 1) guys who call themselves bulls, usually don’t have a clue about a couple’s dynamic, they just want to get laid. 2) finding actual quality guys who will do what they say, understand the couple dynamic, and actually stick...

Before we got married only one, since we’ve been married three and a handjob other then hubby.

Thank you for the responses, very encouraging. I need to recover more and get used to regular sex with my husband who understands and is patient with things before I consider moving forward, but it’s nice knowing others have been in my situation and still able to enjoy this lifestyle.

Thank you for your response. That is very nice to hear, size now that there is a bottom lol, was a question of mine.

This is not a fantasy for us, just wondering as life has happened and wondering as a way to navigate forward.

We would still need condoms to protect against STD”s unless everyone was properly tested, but I’m still curious about if things were pleasurable and not painful. I’d definitely like to hear from other women in the lifestyle that have had this procedure and know that they didn’t have any...

Curious? We are relatively new to the hotwife lifestyle, had a couple of experiences recently, but I had to have a hysterectomy and I’m in the recovery phase. My question is, are there others that have had this procedure and where able to continue in the lifestyle and enjoy sex without...

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Every woman should have at least one.

Constant Communication, and being honest about your feelings, reservation about a potential bull and about things you enjoyed or didn’t enjoy. With each experience your desires and things will change so good communication is key. It’s okay to start slow with baby steps, don’t feel like you got...

She had done some soft play with some guys already but our first full experience was with a guy that was in town for a business conference. We met him for a drink and they hit it off, so we invited him back to our room. They made out for a bit and soon got naked, I watched as she sucked his cock...

Good girl!

That’s exactly how we do it as well, fwb and all conversation are seen by us both nothing hidden.

Sent to others

Let’s see pics the wife has sent to other men while sexting or pics received from other men’s wives as a bull. Here’s one my mine.

Honest open communication is paramount for this lifestyle to work. Boundaries and desires will change over time and with each encounter, but making sure you are talking about it will make those changes go so much more smoothly. Sounds like you two are getting back in the same page, I’m glad a...