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Perhaps it is starting to work. But there in mind, there is no guarantee that she will go back to that period. We change as we age. We evolved in the tour. That is not a bad thing. Perhaps the question is, “in what direction does she desire to grow.” If and connect your intentions for her with...

You meme the golf photo with ‘Free parking is a daily hole in one!’ Or some such thing. You forward his text to your wife. SHE replies to his text: She includes the meme. adds … ‘Kindness merits reward; we think your daily kindness merits rewarding in kind.’ ‘Putt on over for supper and...

jluvsp553: jluvsp553: Guys galore get on these forums and ask what you ask. They want direction on ‘my fantasy of watching my wife with another guy.’ Why do guys DO this? WHY!? The thing is, jluvsp553, this is the LAST way to approach this! What we SHOULD be doing is figuring out not YOUR...

What can you tell us about her fantasy life?

Let’s talk about submarine warfare! Submarines are equipped with hydrophones that can detect sound such as ship engines, propellers, etc. Sensors are used to listen for sounds in the environment without emitting any noise. This is called ‘passive listening.’ It allows them to remain stealthy...

Here’s a thought: Suggest that your wife invite her girlfriend along again. It’s likely they’d talk about this for several weeks. This can help normalize the behavior. Make some inquiries. Look around for another venue. Find a nice place to go occasionally. M Aubrey go every 3 months instead...

Snoopissy: I tend to think the ‘dream department’ is a bit weird. ‘Why were you dreaming about this guy…have you ever met him…where’d that come from … and you dreamed that?!’ More importantly— and more to the point — the dream gig isn’t necessary. In fact I wouldn’t even mention the sexual...

This is intriguing. It begs asking, ‘if not — then what has.’

Yet ironically, very many churches have members in good standing whose wives gave good standing with lovers.

Have you ‘asked her if she’s going to keep in touch with him when he’s done.’ That conveys consent with no scenarios involving your libidinous designs. As summer approaches, you could ask if she’d like to have him over for a BBQ. Or make it a small retirement party involving you and some of...

Goodhubby7: THAT’s what YOU need to discover — as the guy who knows her better than anyone on earth. Guys forever approach this from THEIR [male] fantasy perspective. What you want to do is to figure out HER fantasy. There are travel guides, romantic getaway books, travel blogs, trip...

That’s definitely smarter and moving in the right direction!

Guys — quit the male fantasy stuff! No one on this planet knows this woman the way Goodhubby7 does. If he thinks something won’t go over well, it probably won’t go over well. Instead of ‘getting her’ or ‘making her,’ why not think of this like a seduction? Which incidentally, it is. I...

YNB has put this together, Deezire. Begin by going to school on your wife. Her preferred novels, TV shows, etc. Do any themes or situations in drama seem to fascinate her? Do any scenarios hold her interest well — as use of blindfolds? Men shouldn’t expect their wives to share their fantasies...

‘Happy wife, happy life.’ ‘If momma ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy. There’s a reason folk wisdom exists…

… which made me laugh thinking … ‘Honey I get that. What I’m saying is “just the tip … just to see if it COULD fit…”’ 🤣

So you know her. But do you know her fantasies? Do you know her ideal, romantic situation? Do you know her hotspots — back of her neck, ear lobes, soles of feet, ankles, calves, lower back, etc., that begin her arousal? Understand that these are not things you ask her … these are things you...

Well … you could. Or, you could introduce some modestly larger toys, learn to use these well, and down the road [i.e., a year later] when she is responding very well consistently … you make an observation … ‘… I have to wonder … just how good would the real thing be … ]. Then you shut it for...

So IF she says that, were it free, she’d go at least weekly, are you going to give her an allowance? Also, are you going to be sharing her words with these friends yourself?