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Not quite as clinical as that but I get the comparison. I use massage as an example, it is physical and intimate but outsourced, yet your spouse can still do it to you. New and different is fun and can likely hold interest short term but then it requires more buy in. As far as the trick, it is a...

I have come to the conclusion that for a woman to have sex outside of her marriage it must offer some form of improvement, size, stamina, skill etc, not many would be game for worse than what they started with.

I may not be super accomplished in this lifestyle but I can relate the little bit we have done. I think it is important to let people understand that life happens around fantasy and emotions run high. It is easy to just go wild but you have to be able to live with yourself and your spouse going...

I agree it does seem to skew in one direction but that could simply be that we are on WWTP. There is likely a site out there for husbands, maybe. On here yes, it is far more hotwife than swingers. That could be partly attributed to hotwife being new and a growing trend where swinging has been...

I can offer some insight on part of that, but only part as my situation was not presented/promoted by her, it was me. She has told me she would be turned on by watching me have sex with someone and has suggested I do so. I am not opposed to it happening someday but I really don't need for it to...

My wife is 45, her lover is just turned 35. I am 54.

Wedding ring and all

For me it was easier to see than imagine. Mind you my filthy fetish is watching so maybe a bit different but they had been together a few times before I was part of the meeting and in that time frame I imagined a LOT of things. I suggest you watch at least a couple of times. There will be...

Great take on things. Let me offer a couple thoughts that may or may not pertain. I believe the visual he will have in his head is worse than the reality. The mind can play a lot of tricks and paint a vivid picture of things that may not even be real. I am not advocating you have to be there...

That is a great analogy in that if you do stop you are having to do it by hand lol. In the 90s I worked for a company that rewarded top person each quarter with a leased BMW convertible, it was yours to use for the next quarter, unlimited miles and a gas card . If you stayed top dog you would...

Well let's flip roles for a moment. Imagine your wife says she wants to see you have a three some with 2 women. To test the waters you find a woman, ...... with her a few times and have a threesome with your wife. The new woman is hot and way younger than you and treats you like a king, totally...

Man sorry to hear on top of everything else you are going through. I would take your time and really think this over. You aren't in a rush and this is life changing stuff. I assure you my life has changed substantially, although it is mostly something I can live with now I have no guarantee it...

So about 2 hours South of us. Helene was bad here. Milton was worse South of us. We didn't flood at our house but we have a couple rentals that flooded. I have ripped out all the flooring and drywall , just waiting on insurance now. Worse mess than I have ever seen living here.

Tampa Bay, just North of Clearwater actually. We got hit pretty hard with the hurricanes.

It sounds like your medical issue may be something you have long term (hopefully not). So the question is can you live without sex? Can your wife? If you move forward and your wife becomes involved with a man how will you have intimacy in your relationship outside of sex. I think you need to...

Yes, that is exactly what I was suggesting. It could go any direction and once the toothpaste is out of the tube there is no putting it back in. What is your ideal situation? Back to what it used to be and your erections are good and involved in a monogamous marriage? I am guessing if you had a...

You have quite a few things there. The first is your medical condition, is it something that will be fixed at some point or permanent? That really decides if you just tough it out a bit or look at other options. There is the issue of "you" before discussing anything with your wife. Are you...

Are we supposed to be counting thrusts? Seems a smartwatch app or something could do that. Is time not an easier measure? Nightly before bed stuff is 10 -15 minutes. Daytime or weekend "deliberate sex" is quite a bit longer. If just the two of us likely 30 or 40 minutes, maybe a second round. If...

Do you ever get to Sarasota area? We are from Tampa bay but have a hotwife friend in Sarasota who has a heathy stable of bulls and she has a large property that she sometimes hosts get togethers at. My wife and I have been to her place but not for a party hence not participated in anything there...

We have not done anything beyond MFM. We do however have a friend who is an established hotwife of many years and she has a stable of bulls she sees regularly and as I understand often more than one at a time. We have met some of them, socially only, not in the bedroom. We have been invited to a...