Don't lose faith. The same thing happened to us on several occasions but we think we have found the right guy for her at last. She just left to go have a drink with him and if they click she's bringing him back to our apartment so I can watch them play.
I'll post an update after tomorrow's date. I've helped her pick out what's she's going to wear. It's a flimsy nightgown kind of dress. No bra or panties.
Getting closer. Wife set up date for tomorrow. She's going to meet him for a drink at a local bar and then bring him back to our apartment so I can watch them fucking.
We're getting close to another possible fuck buddy for her. She's been sexting with two guys and is scheduled to meet one of them on Monday or Tuesday.
You can contact wife on Fetlife. Her profile name is NYCwife. Just do not say that you were directed to her by me. She wants contact to be spontaneous.