As a Stag (few years back) and as a bull, I love mff's
In fact, I am looking for a bi female to join me and my girlfriend in Madrid, end of June or July (dates are not fixed yet)
Try to listen and empathize with her
It's her choice first of all
As a bull, I listen to what the wife/girlfriend/woman has to say and how she feels. Then it's the partner
DM me if you would like to talk more