Just her. We haven’t discussed with him if he’s comfortable with me cleaning and fluffing him yet. Right now is just about her and him and allowing them to build their own sexual dynamic.
I hadn’t yet, he goes pretty deep so it took a minute for some to start oozing, but my tongue was definitely down there when it did before it could drip onto the bed. He has the best tasting cum I’ve ever cleaned up.
When my wife is with her bbc bull he has her making faces and noises I’ve never seen or heard ever before. She tells me she can still feel him in her stomach days later.
You definitely approached it the correct way, and if nothing else the open honesty will bring you both closer. If you ever need advice or to talk to an experienced couple in the lifestyle, please feel free to DM us.