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If it were a one time thing a condom makes sense but for something that is ongoing get tested, its easy to do and the sex is much better.

We have had a regular for a year now, we started with condoms but we all got tested and since then he has left many a load in her.

I guess it depends on if it is a new situation or a regular meeting. We have met with someone for the last year and over time it became less anticipated. We have someone new joining soon. We will have known about it for a bit less than a month by the time it happens. In this case there is a lot...

Our upcoming date really has my wife prepping. Aside from the daily 1-2 hour gym sessions she has been shopping for numerous outfits, shoes, boots, lingerie etc. She has appointments set for hair,nails/pedi, wax and professional make up. We have a hell of a night planned evidently. She is...

Well when I say independence I guess I should state it is more of a take charge thing. She is more willing to make decisions vs having to discuss every aspect with me before committing to something. In this case our friend who was our first choice last year who then became a non viable option...

Yes actually, several things were surprising. 1. Continuation. From talks last year it almost seemed that if things with her BF fizzled we were likely done with this. 2. Dominance. Since last Thanksgivings blowup she has been in a different place with the BF. He has been very aggressive and...

In relation to discussions, we have done a lot of talking. There are conflicting thoughts that run through both of our heads as you might imagine. One of the issues has been her guilt/self consciousness associated with having a desire for sex simply for the purpose of sex, not adding to a...

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My wife has encouraged me to ...... with another woman for a solid year now. I don't really feel the need to. I also can say that I don't have anyone in mind that is actually available. There is a woman she teases me about , and yes I do find her attractive as she looks lot like my wife(could be...

The scar is actually kinda hot. If I had to guess most guys would find her very attractive. Likely tough to tell her that but it is not at all something to worry about.

Good point about age, in our case my wife and I were brought up with traditional values. As far as younger it would be hard for me to say as I really do not understand the current generation very well

We have spent ample time dissecting what the last year has meant for both of us and as a couple. The BF really fumbled, he had it all going his way for a very long time and then he pushed a little too much and she was done with it as a relationship. Frankly I was a bit surprised she has...

I agree with you and offer you what I have been given as advice from our hotwife. For a couple of weeks we will likely be looking to scratch the itch and hopefully get over the hurdle as we get more at ease with the situation. So my wife and her BF have been scaled way back since beginning of...

We're Catholic. Giving it up for Lent lol. Not really Long story, easier to link you. https://www.wifewantstoplay.com/threads/girlfriend-wife-girlfriend-to-another-man-vixen-hotwife.60253/#post-1108503

After a very long time I have an update on this thread. Our original choice for a guy a year ago, our best friend that was dating a the girl who insisted on condoms even within her own relationship, is now single- ish. This was our first choice as the three of us used to hang out all the time...

We have been planning this since roughly the beginning of the year, which is also the time my wife discovered her boyfriend started to see someone. It was bound to happen. Last Thanksgiving we had to do some level setting with him as the relationship had peaked and was not going to go any...

The roles of relationship, love and sex Her HF friend has strongly suggested we spend the time to fully understand the roles everyone plays. She is not in favor of my wife's relationship with her boyfriend as it does not fit this model and is messing with my wife's mindset in that she has two...

For the same reason they don't discuss many of their desires, they are culturally shaped to a certain mindset and have trouble thinking about what they really enjoy much less talk about it especially with their partner. Communication is key especially if you are in or considering a lifestyle...

So following a year of an extra marital relationship with another male, my wife and I are discovering we may have an interest in further exploring the hotwife lifestyle. For the last 9 months or so we have been getting very close with a friend of hers that is a long time hotwife. My wife has...