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Do you know if the husband has learned to enjoy the situation or is he only accepting how things are now? It has to be curious thing for you to witness how husbands/bfs come to terms with the new dynamic. I'm sure they are secondary in your thoughts and whatever problems they (the couple or...

Are they still together?

Wow! If you're still in touch and the story goes on after 2-3 years that's pretty impressive! I'm being serious. There's an awful lot that has to go right to go 2-3 years. Has that length of time been a regular thing for you? Have you had other wives as long?

Is this going on now? I can't imagine that the husband wasn't suspicious about anything going on while he was gone. Having a week with his wife must have been quite an experience for the wife. I'll bet she was sore and worn out.

I can see how that would be a natural response from you. I can imagine the thrill of a wife saying something like that in front of her husband. In your experience have women that say they "love you" been long or short term? Have you ever experienced a husband/bf that pushes back eventually?

I'm curious as to how you felt about her saying she "loved" you? It would be my guess that it caught you off guard. You're not looking for her to love you are you? It's just sex to you isn't it?

So, this was related to you by your friend Shawn? That had to be an awkward conversation. At the time you made the bet I'm sure you were confident and didn't feel the threat of losing. Shawn is interesting. He said he felt bad afterwards. I wonder if he felt bad for doing it or bad for you...

Fingers crossed and hoping for the best!

I'll bet you have some stories to tell.

Well, finally! It's about time she owned up to her behavior (at least to some extent)! She must be having some amount of self realization that she's pushed you and her attitude to the breaking point. I'm sure you're skeptical and deservedly so. I'd say call her out on following through with...

Been there! I don't envy you!

Sometimes it sucks, and not in a good way! I'm not going to let it ruin my buzz though!

Just checking in on you. Any new revelations?

I'm beginning to believe that she never was or has been cheating on you. I think she's addicted to tormenting you and she can't stop herself. She has projected her anger towards he ex onto you. She probably hold a spot in her heart that hates all men and she feels the need to point out the...

Has your husband begged you yet?

My wife and I are doing fine, thanks for asking. We are finally in a place where we have more and better sex than ever before. I wish we had gotten to this place much earlier in life but it is what it is. The important part is she's far more interested in sex now. She's showing pride in her...

You sound like you have experience and knowledge earned over the years. The part of your reply that I highlighted seems to be a lost consideration and reason many of these relationships ultimately fail. You can't be oblivious to the experience of ALL those participating (in whatever form that...

Any updates on the ongoing situation? Have you moved out of the bedroom? How has your wife responded to your attitude and what has her attitude been like?

Great for fantasy but the real truth will always be that no one owns anybody. "Sexual ownership" is not a concept that is grounded in reality. I think people lose sight of the idea that the excitement of sex is fleeting and doesn't dominate the balance of time spent in a relationship. All of us...

Get yourself moved out of the bedroom! Make your stand!