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I'll have to say that the tone of your post is pretty blurry. Even with you checking in with "him" it doesn't sound like he's in the loop either. I think you've been wise to "let her process things" on her own but it leaves you in an very unaware position. The fact that you had assumed something...

Any updates?

Wow!

Do you have any plans for your trip to Tampa? Have you done any research on places to take her where there might be a "target rich environment"?

I can hear it now. This where all the "cheerleaders" will jump on board. There's going to be cacophony of statements like, "You have to let her have her freedom!", or "You just need to let her take the lead!", or "It's not her fault that she didn't tell you everything!". Who knows maybe she was...

Sounds like your out of the loop a little.

This has to be an exciting stage. I honestly hope you talk with her more about the jealousy. So many people post here about how important a hot wife's first experience is. The other side of this is that not many post about how important a husband's first experience is. This will be as new to you...

From your update it seems they had/have every intention of playing "with" you and not "playing you" as I earlier asserted. I'm interested to find out how the dice game went and how things ended up.

Any updates? I especially want to know if you figured out her PIN on her phone? Does she guard her phone, as in not leaving it where you can see it? Do you suspect that the pregnancy test was only about the sex that JUST you two have had?

I can only offer you my reactions to your post. My very first reaction was to the "emasculating" talk. How far you go with your kink will depend so much on how committed you are to each other. You may desire the emasculation, you may even get a thrill from it. Over time you won't need any verbal...

Well, it's a work in progress and you have a good foundation of being able to discuss things. I have faith that you'll come out happy in the long run.

#6 seems like it could be difficult especially when added to the vagueness of #7. Overall, it has to feel good to have a greater understanding of where you both find yourself on your journey.

Is there anything that stands out that you didn't know before that has come from your discussions?

Any updates?

Lately I've been thinking, "You can. have you cake and eat it too if everyone gets a piece of the pie!" Yeah, it would destroy me if, after wanting it for years, my wife turned inconsiderate and selfish. I'd blow up..........eventually!

That has to be THE most dreaded issue, her having feelings for her lover, enough so to cause uncertainty. I imagine you head floods with thoughts and all sorts of wrong conclusions and wild scenarios. This where I've observed here that it takes a very smart and sensitive wife to not lose her...

Everybody seems to have their own way of doing things. You should too! I get that robbiewillsucku is into the deep end of the pool, but not everybody has to be there to have fun.

What changed your mind about cleaning up? Had you and your wife ever discussed it before?

Just out of curiosity, do you feel different about yourself now? Is it everything you hoped it would be? Any regrets at all?

Inevitably the bf situation will come to a point where the emotional connection needs to be revisited and that the expectations that were initially established have not changed. It is to your credit that that you have been able to reach this point in your hotwife journey. You've avoided any...