That’s how it should be. Superior cock equals superior status and privileges. We know what time it is when we sign up for this. For me my first hated oral but had her bull in her mouth. I don’t know my current wife hates head too so if a BBC gets a hold of her then….yeah.
I’m sorry for that pain. Here’s the good news. If she tries one, and he’s huge and knows how to use that monster, she will change her mind. It’s happened to me before lol