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That’s the thing, namely, that Nature intends this. You can’t undo 100 million years of evolutionary biology in a minute. Why do we even think that we’re supposed to? In fact Nature intends something very different.

… because? Why not identify the core of resistance? Strategize around that.

In short — no resolution of past issues. Bit if they were … That was my point. Glad this worked out so well for you guys. Take care! 😂

Take her concerns SERIOUSLY! Before proceeding, I counsel strongly that you consult a certified sex therapist or a mental health professional with experience in cuckoldry. This can help identify potential issues, assess your communication styles and intimacy dynamics, and develop a tailored...

Hmmm 🧐… Perhaps they had ‘history’ [crush?] which made this transition happen easily … “Reminisce” indeed! Another thing … I wonder if Marie has an exhibitionist streak. Does she like to show off? Feel “empowered” by the situation where she plays and you don’t? “Sit down and watch!” Doesn’t...

No experience with this , but have a care — if they reconnect and resolve past issues that may have contributed to their breakup — you are left holding … ?

I’ll admit to thinking the OP was a male, projecting his own fantasies on the board. I moved against that, but am increasingly returning to that idea.

💯% — likely, he has plenty now. It CAN go off the rails very quickly. Years ago, a guy posted that he hid in his bedroom behind louvered closet doors where he could see this wife being railed by a guy’s stunt cock. He wrote about how easily she became aroused, and how quickly he brought her to...

Way to respect your wife! I’ve never used the ‘ignore’ feature — not even when people sent me unsolicited stuff I didn’t want. I’ll make an exception in this case. Take care!

Dear Frustrated Wife: I suggest rethinking your strategic approach to this ‘little’ problem. You write, “I’ve decided” [to put him in his place], and solicit community input on the “how” and “what.” Mr. Little is well aware of his diminutive dimensions, and many of his ‘cousins’ [if you take...

Let her joke. Don’t push her. Be serious … but without conversation. Take a moment or two before you answer. When you DO, let your reply suggest that you are pondering it. She makes her ‘joke.’ You ……….. ‘I’m not there yet’ [if she teases, so much the better]; if she claims the ‘joke,’...

Curious, is it not, how often the mere experience gets the reluctant onboard!

Have you considered sharing this with her very close friend? Would it cause a falling out between them? Maybe. You know your girl as well as about anyone. This may seem odd, but you’re still marrying. Explaining how powerfully erotic you find this and thanking the friend for this unintended but...

I concur with Costalkid. After two decades? This didn’t occur in a vacuum. You worked it out that she wasn’t talking to her brother or a kid; but you were still broadsided/blindsided by this. I think you need to acknowledge that you your [plural] need to reconnect. In your shoes, I’d want to...

Got that and agree. I believe that issuing orders, extreme anger and the insecurity driving them fairly shouts “toxicity.” Anyone dealing with such dynamics need to realize that this is not a ‘safe’ place to be.

And again, I would ask if you mean to send pix on request, or do you seek men who will engage your wife in a series of correspondences…

Does she know? Is she onboard?

Are you looking for men willing to engage your wife in a process of private correspondence, engage her fantasy life, tap into her imaginative response, and so forth? That is the gist I take from your thread title line ..

LOL! I actually thought of the Enigma Machine …

Dayum! Can’t look away. You gotta tell her to stop doin’ that! Tell her I said so! 😂